Sharon, I am so deeply sorry for all you've been through. I have just started participating more on this site. I read what happened to you and your family. I was wondering how your husband is doing and, if you don't mind, could you tell me how you handled your daughters birthday. My son Jameys first birthday since I had to lay him in his permanent bed in September 24th and I just do not know how I am going to get through that day. He was such a sick little guy after he was born. He was born 2 months early. His lung burst, he had jaundice, under-weight and was just barely hanging on. At age 4 he was put in ICU because he had a blood poisoning that the doctors were never able to find the cause. But he pulled through that. Then at age 7 his appendix burst. As he got older, he had several accidents in which he broke bones. And then...the wreck. He hung on for a day and a half. November 20, 2014. Before Thanksgiving. What struck me so hard was a remark by one of his aunts. She said to me that she had prayed he would pull through so that everyone would have a good holiday. ???? Well I am soo sorry that my childs passing ruined your dinner. How do you deal with those kind of thoughtless remarks.

I hope that you are doing as well as you can in this hell we both, and so many others, share. How are your other kids? I wish you peace.

Hi Sharon, I left a comment for you under the Stay With Me poem yesterday-I'm not sure if you saw it. I hope things are a little easier for you today. sending you gentle thoughts a hug and a virtual frape <3

I can't believe how much you have had to suffer... I'm so sorry...