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Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on June 14, 2011 at 7:53pm

its very hard chrissy, and I feel the same way about my mom....

Comment by chrissy m on June 14, 2011 at 7:48pm

i miss my mom so much every day i don't know how to deal with it

Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on June 14, 2011 at 5:19pm

Robin, emotions are definitely hard to deal with, mine range from one thing to another too....I am glad I'm going to church too, I really need to....and its my second family there....I enjoy the worship and we sing and have fun....and it keeps me close to mom....hang in there Robin

Comment by Robin Williams on June 14, 2011 at 4:56pm

It's so wonderful that you are all able to go to church.  My dad and I went back 2 weeks after my Moma's passing.  I really needed to be there.  I too miss going back to my parents house and spending the remainder of the day w/ my moma.  Now my Dad has his new girlfriend and the first time she came w/ him she sat where my moma sat.  Talk about painful.  Now my dad sits where my mom used to sit. So many painful emotions to constantly deal with!!!

Comment by Marie Carr on June 14, 2011 at 4:22pm

I find it helps in a way.  I go and light a candle each one for my Mum and one for my Dad.  I miss them so much.  I still cry sometimes, while I am in the church, as my Mum never ever missed church each week.  She prayed all the time.  My Dad turned Catholic after my after we lost my Mum.  He didnt just do that because he lost her, but had planned to change from Prodestent to Catholic before.  He had told my Mum this and he went through with it but then we lost him.  I feel close to both of them when I go to church.  They went to church together and I remember going to church with my Mum and also both of them, when my three children were baptised and for my sons First Holy Communion. and for my Nieces comfirmation.  I really am missing them so much and have felt really emotional yesterday and today for some reason, Full of regret and guilt, wishing I had been there for them alot more.

Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on June 13, 2011 at 9:03pm

she is with you sharon, im so glad you went to church....i have the same kind of feelings when i go to church, but i love church, and her friends are my friends there....again, im so glad that you went, im sorry its hard for you....me too....there are people here who understand and are here for you

Comment by sharon on June 13, 2011 at 7:57pm

•  Yesterday  i went back to church for my frist  se enice my mom's death  and  let me tell you  it was not easy waiting for her walk in  and coming  to sit with me  as we use to do,  i felt alone yesterday  all day  and plus i had  a mom moment after chruch  i  do miss  the family meals   we use to have  after church,   i went to church  and  i  needed  to do that for my self so  i can have some closer ffor my self  and  plus   she  would wanted me to go too  i  know  she was with me yesterday and allways,,  keeping  all of you in prayers of healing at this time of sadness, 
• Blessings Sharon

Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on June 13, 2011 at 6:05pm

you are a sweetheart too mercy, and I am just telling it like it is, and trying to help....yes, hold onto your daughter, she can give you comfort right now....you have been through some hard stuff, I'm so sorry....I also lost my father about 8 years ago to the same disease that took my mom....dont stop loving mercy, but I have the same problem.....I am glad you got it out last night, you needed to, its not healthy to bottle it up inside....like I said you can write me anytime....hang in there sweetie....you are a doll....Rachel

Comment by mercy on June 13, 2011 at 3:18pm

Rachel you are such a sweetheart. Last night I was having a terrible time with my moms passing. I wasn't home when they took her to the hospital; I kept thinking, did mom know that would be the last time she would see the house she's lived in for more than 50 years? I totally lost it. I was so mad at God, I kept thiking I should never love anyone since they will be taken from me prematurely. I lost my 43 year old brother suddenly in June of last year and now my mom. Three of my brothers are now gone and, my dad died in '94 when I was 20 and now my mom. Its so hard Rachel and most days I'm just really struggling to get anything done. Its been two weeks since mom left us and I pray it gets easier. My 18 month old daughter gives me reason to go on since my mom loved her so much. Anyway, I appreciate your concern and I pray that you too will be strong to get through these rough days. God Bless you my dear.

Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on June 12, 2011 at 5:36pm

mercy, dont ever think of taking your life....you need to pull out of this, and i will try and help....recently i went to that dark place and had to be hospitalized, i didnt care anymore, but I'm ok now, I want to live, and my mom wants that....you will get there too, your mom wants you happy honey....just keep trying, and ONE DAY AT A TIME :)....you can write me whenever...I'm here....

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