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Comment by Sandra Nichols on April 5, 2012 at 8:29am

Hi Tammy, It has been almost 5 months since my mom has been gone and I'd like to say it gets easier but, so far it has not gotten easier. Sounds like your sister and son are great reasons to keep on! I"m focusing also on my sister and my dog to keep going. We are going to go to mom's gravesite and plant flowers in a couple of weeks. I really dread it. The reality sometimes comes crashing down so hard.  

Comment by Tammy Dresslar on April 5, 2012 at 7:33am

I started going thru my mom's things this week. Two months exactly today she's been gone. I have no one wanting to help do this. Since I have had nightmares evry night. Now this morning I am feeling suicidal.. I really don't want to die, but it seems the only way to stop hurting. I go to a cosmotology school to get away and get my mind off. Then there's a girl where I'm at who just lost her dad and is having the same feelings. Somedays I want to run far away. All I have left is my sister, and son. It hurts really hurts. For the most part I have been able to bottle up these feelings now that I,m going thru her stuff it actually seems real. I feel so alone.

Comment by Linda on April 4, 2012 at 5:54pm

Sue, thank you so much. I can see that.....  My mom lived with me on and off for 18 yrs and was always here for me when Ineeded her.  I am going thru some personal issues right now and have decisions to make and just unsure of the right decision...  I miss her so much somtimes its very overwhelming

Comment by Sue Waxman on April 4, 2012 at 10:57am

Linda,

My take on your dream is that when we are really grieving and feel so sad and hopeless our departed ones are trying to come to us and make us feel better. But because we are so full of raw emotion they cannot get through. Our loved ones contact us through vibrations. When you are sleeping your mind is less cluttered. When I was in my worst stages of grief right after mom passed, I had the same dreams. I would wake up crying out for my mom. Once I researched what happens to us when we leave this earth and our host bodies I began to understand more about death. Your loved one is in another place. Not gone. Just in another place. Why would we be here and then just poof be gone and thats the end of it. No way. My mother comes in me now in my dreams and it is usually enjoyable. She is helping me with unresolved issues I have had all of my life. Open your mind and your heart. We all have the capabilities to reconnect with someone who has gone before us to the next world. I have done it myself and I am just an ordinary person. Sue

Comment by Linda on April 4, 2012 at 10:00am

Sue, I am not sure. What do you make of it?

Comment by Sue Waxman on April 4, 2012 at 9:31am

Linda,

What do you think she is trying to say to you?

Comment by Linda on April 3, 2012 at 3:35pm

I had a really freaky dream last night about my mom.....  It even woke me up....  I was back home for her memorial services and forgot her ashes in Seattle, forgot the poster board with pics and pic blanket.

 

I am crying and my aunt;s show up etc... then the funeral director comes out and says there is a problem with moms cremation... we go back and they have her on this gurney.  they take the sheet off and she wakes up and looks at me,,,, cries and says "Sis I love you! "  It just so freaked me out ...

 

Comment by Sue Waxman on April 3, 2012 at 2:25pm

Linda,

Your mother gave you life. Celebrate her love for you by making her proud of you. Be the best YOU can be from this day on until you are reunited with her. She is still your mom and she is not GONE. She is just in another place right now. Sue

Comment by Linda on April 3, 2012 at 9:58am

I have 2to kids. My son just turned 19 and my daughter is 17. They were extremely close to my mom too... she helped raise them and they were the loves of her life.

Comment by Brenda Ann on April 2, 2012 at 11:53pm

Linda,
Can you tell me about your child? How many? Boy or girl? Please let us know about your baby(babies). Your life is valueable to us too. One day you get thru is another day of hope for us all. We can make together. Well, together with God's help.

You can always count on me to listen. Help me get to know you.

Brenda

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