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Comment by James D on October 20, 2012 at 12:04pm

I'm with you too Lynn. I lost my mom about a month ago, and it feels like someone put a knife in my heard and cut a chunk out. Just surround yourself with friends and family, and consider therapy as an option too. And give yourself time to grieve...but keeping busy will help too. 

Comment by michael sandoval on October 19, 2012 at 10:02pm

dear robin, my condolences.  breaking down and crying is natural and your dad shouldn't tell you that.  I recommend therapy, and if you have insurance, it might be covered, mine is.  therapy has helped me the most.  I lost my wife of one year, three years ago, and I just lost my Mom three weeks ago.  Therapy is really helping a lot.  cry if you need to.  we don't have our moms to comfort us like we used to.

Comment by lynn morgan on October 19, 2012 at 9:47pm

I mean who else loves you as much your whole life as your mother. The hurt of her dying is so painful.I know she suffered with health problems awhile before she died and I wouldn't want her to suffer anymore either.

Comment by lynn morgan on October 19, 2012 at 9:39pm

I cant imagine never seeing my mom ever again. Hopefully ill see her in the afterlife. I mean if there is an afterlife.

Comment by lynn morgan on October 19, 2012 at 9:35pm

I wish my dad wouldn't tell me that I shouldn't break down and cry and say mom wouldn't like me crying like that.

Comment by Dr S Gh on October 17, 2012 at 6:42am

Hi james, sorry that u2 have lost ur mum.I lost my mum suddenly nearly 4 weeks ago. I am finding it's getting harder as each day passes. Like you i hope that it wiull get easier but at the moement it feels as if it nevrr will.

Comment by James D on October 16, 2012 at 6:41pm

Thanks Mary, Michael. It is hard. For me, my mom was someone who was there for me for 27 years. Granted most of the problems I'm dealing with now are the same as when mom was alive...but now they seem worse. The hole will always be there. I just hope I can patch over it eventually. 

Comment by Mary on October 16, 2012 at 6:14pm

James, I'm so sorry for your loss.  This group will help you through some of those hardest times, we all have lost our moms and can relate and we've all gone through or are going through those same emotions.  I did not believe anyone when they told me it gets some better, I could not see that as a possibility, but the intensity of the grief has decreased some (my mom passed in March of this year), but the hole will always be there.

Comment by michael sandoval on October 16, 2012 at 5:59pm

Dear James,

My condolences.  I lost my mom three weeks ago and i know how you feel.  I am still realizing what an amazing woman my mom was, and even more now than ever I'm missing her.

Comment by James D on October 16, 2012 at 5:41pm

After finding this group, I decided to join. I'm 27 years old, and my mom died a month ago, and I've just been picking up the pieces and dealing with nonstop drama, all the while trying to find a job (Social Media gets a little too competitive for my tastes) and make sure all the house stuff is in order. It's finally set in that I'll never be able to talk to mom again, or hold her hand, or watch TV with her, and  it's hurting the hell out of me. I have family and friends...but they just can't seem to plug the hole mom's death left in my heart. 

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