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Comment by Jesse Wills on January 30, 2013 at 3:18am

I lost my Mama on new years eve 2012.... so tomorrow is one month for me, and it is the absolute worst pain that I have ever felt in my entire life. No one seems to know or understand how i feel. I have 2 older brothers, and i was the youngest. I am 28 now, but i feel like a kid all over again because my mom was my everything. She was my bestfriend. I told her absolutely everything. I just feel so lost. There are times when i am fine, and then all of a sudden it just hits me all over again. I miss my mama so much. I just wish I could tell her again that I love her. I wish that she could wrap her arms around me again and hug me. :(

Comment by Eliza on January 29, 2013 at 10:25pm

A huge wave of grief has swept over me today. It's nearly the two month mark since losing mom, and it's as fresh and raw as when it happened. I miss her so much. I wish I could hear her voice and her laugh. I am forever changed because of this loss.

Comment by Judy on January 29, 2013 at 1:59am

Several of us are dealing with very recent losses of our mothers. It always hurts my heart to read about how hard it is. My mother died the day after Mother's Day, 2012, so it's still all new to me, but not as fresh a wound as Jo, Linda, & Nancy. It feels like your grief and your tears will never end, like you'll never recover. In a sense, I think this is true. We will never "just get over it." Oh, it's a terrible, terrible pain... I do want you to know that, for me, things eventually got under control and I can function again. That first couple of months is brutal, but you will come out on the other side. For now, just cry and scream and stare into space. That's "normal." I still cry a lot, and feel that stabbing pain in my heart. There's just no easy way out. I think we're all more vulnerable now because of the "holiday hangover." I hope y'all will continue to post here. I've found that the people on this board are really comppassionate and supportive.

Comment by Mary on January 28, 2013 at 10:17pm

Sorry to hear of your loss Nancy.  I don't think anyone knows what a normal grieving process is like, is there such a thing?  I think everyone grieves their own way.  What I do know is that if the grief interferes with functioning in your life then yes it is time to seek professional help with dealing with your moms death and your other family issues. There is nothing wrong with asking or seeking help!

Comment by Nancy L on January 28, 2013 at 10:07pm

I lost my mom Dec 28.  I feel empty.  I suffer from depression as it is and this has made it so much worse.  I don't know what a normal grieving process is suppose to be like.  At times I feel like I need professional help to deal with her death and the family issues. 

Comment by Anne on January 28, 2013 at 9:29am

Linda:  My mom passed 29 Nov of last year, and I am dealing with depression as well...find someone to talk with, start a journal to your mom remembering the good times, and if it gets any worse talk with your doctor. Feel free to message me anytime.

Comment by Linda Harcrow on January 28, 2013 at 8:26am

My mother passed away suddenly July 31, 2012. I have been depressed for a few weeks now, and it seems to be worse everyday. I feel stuck in this stage. Anyone else dealing with depression? 

Comment by Mary Norris on January 26, 2013 at 3:35pm

Hello Everyone,

I am still finding that there are many days when missing my mom is harder than others. My mom was my go to person for pretty much everything and now that she is gone I have to try to remember everything that she taught me. The past few holidays have been really hard without her, because I miss her so much.

Sincerely,

Mary Norris

Comment by Bern on January 23, 2013 at 1:12pm

Mary,

You have every right to express how you feel. I loss my mother, and it takes a while to get use to not talking to her.

Comment by michael sandoval on January 23, 2013 at 10:55am

Dear Jo, My deepest Condolences.

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