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Comment by sharon p. adams on May 28, 2013 at 6:39am

miss my mom more every single minute of every single day,cant stand the pain..

Comment by Kimberly Hamilton on May 28, 2013 at 3:00am

I am so sorry Cynthia ans Hannah. My Mother died Nov. 8th. It does not matter if you are 8 or 58, if you lose a parent you may as well be 3. Mother's Day was horrible for me. I was a mess, even before that day when commercials came on for Mother's Day things and seeing Mother's Day stuff in the stores. I am having less days when I cry;for the first 4 months I cried every day at some point. It may only have been for a few minutes or hours, but I would just burst into tears. I think of her everyday. Although, I keep thinking that my Mother taught me to be a strong woman and do whatever needed to be done to get through a challenge, so I think she would say this is no different. I remember when my Grandmother died (my Mother's Mother) just 10 months after my Father died and 7 months after she was in a major motor vehicle accident and how she dealt with it. I think she leaned a lot on us kids but also her friends and coworkers. She had one friend she was quite close to that had already gone through the same thing, and I am sure she had talks with her. I guess that is sort of what this is; all of us going through this confiding in each other.

Comment by Emily on May 27, 2013 at 11:03pm

Thanks Anne, I've been told time and talk help, but it feels like yesterday and I lost my mom Dec 27,2012.

Comment by Sue Waxman on May 27, 2013 at 9:52am

Vynthia,

I found this site the day my mother passed June 26, 2011. It was a horrible day. Somehow this site just came to me....people where here for me when my sisters were telling me how awful a person they always though I was. I guess they hated me enough to say the most horrible things in the world to me the day our Mother took her last breath. Oddly enough those words did not destroy me but gave me tremendous courage and strength that changed my life forever. Thank you to the people who taught me so much here on this site. Your friendships will continue in my heart. To all of you in your raw moment - we learn the most from pain and suffering than we do from the easy and great times we experience. Only when we are experiencing complete suffering...is the opportunity for each of us to find out why we were born in the first place. It is when we are completly broken down that we can awaken ourselves to many things we otherwise could never acknowledge and understand. Start by reading about life after death. Eckhart Tokelin and George Anderson. God bless.

Comment by Anne on May 27, 2013 at 6:27am

My condolences as well to Cynthia and Hannah.  I lost my Mom on November 29th, 2012.  It seems like ages, and yet, some days, it is like yesterday.  Mother's Day was rough, and I also did the Susan B. Komen walk the following Saturday.  I did that alone, or should I say, Mom and I did it together.  I could feel her with me, and I heard her through a woman who hugged me because I was alone.  She said all the things Mom would have said to me. I was kinda numb throughout the walk yet it was a wonderful experience; bittersweet.

  My heart goes out to everyone where ever they are in this journey.

Comment by Jeff R on May 27, 2013 at 12:31am

My condolences to you both, Cynthia and Hannah.  I understand how difficult this must be.  It is true that others who have not been thru this, don't really "get" it.  And, it doesn't matter what the circumstances were (age, illness, etc.)...it's a devastating loss nonetheless.

Comment by michael sandoval on May 26, 2013 at 7:31pm

My Condolences to everyone.

Comment by Hannah McMurphy on May 26, 2013 at 7:27pm

I feel so lost and sad without my Mom,she passed on Mother's Day,just 2 weeks ago.She was the strongest person I have ever known and,I dont know how to go on without her.

Comment by Emily on May 26, 2013 at 2:29pm

Cynthia-I'm so sorry about your mom. I lost my mom Dec 27,2012, you know its ok to cry. I still have days where I cry. This is a wonderful site, good people on here who are grieving. Mothers day and her birthday were hard..................

Comment by Ann on May 25, 2013 at 11:58pm

I saw a photo of a dog who was found after the Oklahoma tornado, loyally sitting by his dead master; he would not leave.  Every time I wake up another day without my mom and walk out the door I feel less loyal than that dog.  I shouldn't be going on without her, I shouldn't be breathing without her.  

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