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Comment by Amanda on June 3, 2013 at 9:07am

Brette, I've been thinking very similar thoughts. My mom died suddenly and unexpectedly in early April at the age of 57. When I see an older couple enjoying their golden years, I wonder why my parents didn't get to have that. When I see a grandmother at the park with her grandkids, I get angry that my kids were denied that. I talk to other women who complain about taking care of their elderly moms, and I get angry inside that they get that opportunity and don't appreciate it. Why don't I get that chance? We'll never have answers to these questions, but it's hard to ignore them.

Comment by Natalie on June 2, 2013 at 8:47pm

It's been 11 months. I want my mom, too. I want so much to be able to pick up the phone and call her again. If I had known then what I know now, I would have made so much more of the time when I had her. May God rest the souls of all our mommies and may He bring healing to our hearts. . . . .

Comment by Brette Stinson on June 2, 2013 at 8:44pm

Hello All, it's been a while since I been on here. For those that have not seen me on here before, my name is Brette and I lost my mom last year on St Patricks day! I just have a question for everybody that has lost a mother.  How does God know who is the strongest to survive a lost as such as a mother? For all of us our mothers was our everything. And I guess I just want to know why is that some of the people in the world get to grow old with their mothers and then there are us that lost our mothers early before we had the chance to enjoy a fruitful life with them.  Its like how was I chosen to not have a mother or father?  When somebody that is of my equal age still has one or both of their parents? I'm lost! I just want my mom back!! But I am praying for all of us during this heartbreaking time!

Comment by Jennifer Blackwood on June 2, 2013 at 4:52pm

My thoughts and prayers are with you Sue! Coming up on birthdays and anniversaries are very hard to deal with at times! We are here if you need to talk! *Hugs*

Comment by Sue Waxman on June 2, 2013 at 4:30pm

I still have a message on my phone frommy mother. It breaks me into pieces but i cannot delete it. It will be 2 years June 26th. It feel forever. God bless you.

Comment by Jennifer Blackwood on June 2, 2013 at 12:58pm

Hannah, I wish I would have kept text messages or emails. My Mom wasn't a I love you type of person, she had a hard time saying it, but she wrote it out everytime. 

Cynthia, so glad that you have a few of them. I've only managed to listen to the video I have of my Mom once. I understand it being heartbreaking and relieving at the same time. Aww, I'm glad you found the cat a good home. Some people are really good with animals, and animals have a good sense of judgement so that just goes to show that your Mom had a heart of gold!:) Beautiful dog by the way!

Comment by Hannah McMurphy on June 2, 2013 at 1:03am

I so wish I still had one of my Mom's message's she left on my machine...deleated them when I still thought she would be here with me forever.I would love to hear her voice,hear her say my name.

Comment by Jennifer Blackwood on June 1, 2013 at 11:44pm

Jeff, just looked up Aussie Terriers, what a cutie! Some of them does resemble a Cairn Terrier!:)

Comment by Jennifer Blackwood on June 1, 2013 at 11:43pm

Kristen, I get that! My Mom was in a coma, and my family went and tore the house apart trying to find something that they could take..and she hadn't even passed yet! I know I've got to forgive them, but they don't even talk about her anymore, like she never existed or anything! Ughh some people I swear..to me, it feels like it happened yesterday, yet seems forever since I've seen her face, if that makes sense. My mom didn't like pictures either, so the few that I do have, I've made several copies so I never lose them, I even put some in the safe. 

Jeff, yeah my Mom was a Basset Hound lover but she got the Terrier for me. Well she fell in love, so he was her baby, and now he is back with me. He grieved for her for about eleven months, and it was so sad but I think I've got him to where he is ok now. He never stopped eating or anything but he sure did lose his joy. Aww, I think she is reunited with them, since they were a huge part of her!:)

Comment by Jeff R on June 1, 2013 at 9:50pm

Cairn terrier huh?  My mom was a  big fan of Aussie terriers, a dog that is quite similar to the Cairn. We got hooked on thiem when I was a kid and now I am on #4.  I have lots of pix of Mom and our Aussies over the years :-)  I like to think she's been reunited with them (I hope).

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