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Comment by Martha on August 12, 2013 at 4:31pm

HB, it amazes me how we have to listen to the most trivial stuff from the people around us. I talk to my mother (not at loud if people are around) same as she was physically here. I know that spiritually she is, and this helps me. When you think of her send her love and the light of God. Our mothers never leave us, they are with us always in their spiritual self. This bond will never be broken, there is comfort in knowing this. You might want to read "Journey of Souls". 

I am trying hard to make this difficult time into an opportunity to get more in touch with that which is spiritual, the only true reality there is.

Comment by Heartbroken Daughter on August 12, 2013 at 4:04pm

Thank you, Martha.  My mom was my best friend, my rock.  I feel like people have more sympathy for a break up with a boyfriend.  I listen to my friends go on about some guy they broke up with years ago that they are not over yet, and no one seems to care that I lost my whole world.  My dad refuses to talk about her at all and just wants to talk about his dates and new friends.  I sympathize with him since she was sick for so long, but I feel like I have no one to turn to.  Before, when I was sad, I'd call my mom.  I just found this group, and it's been some comfort to see that I'm not alone in this.

Comment by Martha on August 12, 2013 at 2:42pm

HB, I feel your pain. Seeking counseling or a support group could be the right thing for you to do. I know in my case, four months into it I felt horrible, it is over a year for me and it is still hard. Losing a wonderful mother is so devastating, to feel as you do is human. And, it does not surprise me that most people around you do not understand, it seems to be the norm for most of us here.

May God give us all strength.

 

Comment by Heartbroken Daughter on August 12, 2013 at 11:58am

Does anyone know of a grief counselor or support group in SF?  It's been four months since my Mom died, and it seems like it just gets harder, instead of easier.  I think it's finally hitting me that she is really gone.  I feel so lost without her, and my friends have not been supportive at all.  My dad just wants to move on.  

Comment by Danny on August 11, 2013 at 9:19pm

Yes I do feel like that but I always knew there is no loyalty with people other than parents. 

Comment by Emily on August 11, 2013 at 1:44pm

Yes i do.

Comment by Martha on August 11, 2013 at 9:04am

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I miss my Mom every hour of every day. Life will never be the same.

Patience is scare when dealing with nonsense now, and I find myself walking away from people (when possible) who place other things above loyalty. Just wondering, if you all feel the same way.

 

Comment by michael sandoval on August 9, 2013 at 2:09pm

It's been almost a year since my mom passed away and i still cry and miss her so much.  i love you mommy.

Comment by Emily on August 8, 2013 at 7:56pm

Alexandra -I'm so sorry about your mom. Its hard but its ok to be angry, I get angry and my mom died last Dec.

Comment by Danny on August 8, 2013 at 11:00am

Its very tough Alexandra for someone in their mid 20's so you are really an adolescent almost.  I am lucky to have my parents with me in my 20's and 30's.  I thank God for that.  But even now just think as if your Mom is there with you and for you. That is how I try to hang on. 

I wish you the best.

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