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Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on August 17, 2013 at 3:21pm

mom, I love you....I thought of her in church last week and started balling....I love her so

Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on August 17, 2013 at 3:20pm

hello everyone, my mom is heavily on my mind this week, nothing special, I just found some of her old clothes and things, I hope to get stronger, its been rough

Comment by Eliza on August 17, 2013 at 1:58pm

Jeff, that must have been so tough. I lost my grandmother-in-law last October, an uncle in November, and my mom in December, all to cancer. You're absolutely correct that it is emotionally taxing and draining. My thoughts are with you.

Comment by Martha on August 16, 2013 at 4:33pm

Angela, you are so right. 

Also, please join us on Chat when you are feeling really down. It helps. We have talked with some of you already, and look forward to chatting with more from this wonderful group. It makes a difference. 

Comment by Angela on August 15, 2013 at 6:47pm

My heart goes out to you all here... I feel the same way also. Everyday is a struggle. and yes Sheila I think your Mom is up there watching over you. and HB I feel the same way also. People don't understand this pain. only the people here understands. we are here for one another cause we are all in this together.  Hang in there everyone.

Comment by Jeff R on August 15, 2013 at 12:05am

Had to attend another wake/viewing today as my cousin's wife passed away.  this is the 3rd wake for my family since december---another cousin lost his wife in Dec, then my Mom in Feb, now this loss.  everyone is a bit drained at this point, I have to say.  Life's tough, but we all do our best to tread forward.

Comment by Cindy C on August 14, 2013 at 8:46pm

I had a rough morning. Ive been trying to keep up on paying electric and taxes on my moms house. You know, the world keeps going on around us even though we are grieving. I know now that I didnt take enough time off when mom passed. Three months ago tomorrow.Anyways, I missed a payment and went to make it right today and the clerk was so rude and cold even when I explained the situation. Up until then I was always on time. I cried so hard after I got to the car that I worked myself into a horrible headache. Im doing my best to keep it together. I am a mgr. in foodservice as well as cake decorator and summer is busiest for both! I am much quicker to temper right now. Hang in there everyone. No one understands as well as all of you. Thanks for listening.

Comment by Martha on August 14, 2013 at 3:07pm

Mom, I know you are in Heaven in perfect peace with many of our family members, but I miss you so very much. We will see each other when it is my time, and that comforts me. Thank goodness, I see you in my dreams sometimes, and that is such a gift.

I am now part of a wonderful group of folks that have lost their Moms, as well. Please have all the Mom's in Heaven send us strength as we all need it.

Comment by Danny on August 13, 2013 at 6:02pm

Welcome HB.  Sleep well.

Comment by Heartbroken Daughter on August 13, 2013 at 5:58pm

Thanks, Danny.  I learned very quickly that I can't talk to anyone about my grief, except on here.  No one wants to hear it.  I find myself getting so angry that they expect me to listen to them go on about some guy that broke up with them months ago, and yet no one has any interest in lending an ear for my heartbreak.  One of my friends actually told me that I'm "too much drama" now, but not to take it personally-- only a few weeks after she said she'd do anything to support me.   Clearly, not a real friend, but it made me feel even more alone.  Thanks to all of you for responding.  It helps a little, especially on days like today.  

Eliza, congratulations on your promotion-- I'm sure your mom knows somehow and is so proud of you.

Sheila, I don't know if it will help you, but I try to imagine what my mom would say and it helps me a little.  She used to always tell me that "everything is replaceable but [me], her treasure".  I hope you're doing better.

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