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Comment by Martha on October 2, 2013 at 5:05pm

Our Moms are in Heaven, they are seeing us suffer beyond measure. Is it possible that seeing us like this is making them really, really sad? Do they perhaps want to see us remembering all the love and wonderful memories they made possible for us? I was just wondering...

Comment by Dia -Ayesha on October 2, 2013 at 12:36pm

Hi everybody. I lost my wonderful mother this July 22, 2013. Certainly the worst day of my life. I feel so lost and lonely. The pain, sorrow, greif and heartache combined with the loneliness eats me up inside. I'm only in my 30's and when I see people in their 50's with mothers in their 70's I feel very very sad. They are so lucky that their mothers are still alive. Its so unfair. I feel orphaned. Theres an Indian saying which translates into : those who have a mother have everything. I feel as though my world has ended. She was my everything all the problems and troubles in the world were soothed by my mother . All she had to do was put her hand on my head and bless me. Now I'm this lost and broken zombie who spends her days repeating over and over again :"I can't believe you're gone Mom" and "How am I supposed to live without you Ma(Indian word for mother). Somebody please help me . Please tell me how am I supposed to live in this world without my beloved mother? .My heart always belonged to her. When she went she took my heart alongwith her.

Comment by Danny on October 2, 2013 at 4:40am

Its tough and I have all the same feelings as Angela, the truck and walking around in a daze.  I make it through the routine but I know there is shock and disbelief sitting inside me.  Perhaps it is hitting me only now.  I am strong in that I have handled the last 15 years on my own mostly and not physically there together but mainly visiting. But I felt she was on this path with me together and the fact that I cannot pick up the phone is killing me.  4-5 months later this is where I am but I am trying to survive myself and support people here too.  No idea how everything will turn out.  I will give it time but who knows ? I asked God for something simple and even that I did not get.

Comment by Martha on October 1, 2013 at 4:09pm

I am so sorry you all feel so sad. As for myself, just finished having a long cry in my mother's room. Wish I was as strong as Mom was. All there is left is to ask God to give us the strength to make it for one more day.

Comment by Angela on September 30, 2013 at 9:39pm

Yes Dia. Well said. We are all united here by our common loss and grief. So sorry for your loss. Hang in there. We are here to support you always. It's been 8 months for me and I still feel like a lost soul walking around in a daze. I miss my Mom soooo much. We were sooo close. Like best friends and now she's gone and I feel soooo lost. Like a truck ran over my heart and I'm left standing alone on the side of the road.

Comment by Danny on September 30, 2013 at 4:49pm

Yes UL (Unconditional Love) is hard to get and we have to strive to get something close to that with the people who we are in touch with.  We all are human Cynthia and took our parent's UL for granted to some extent and did not realize this until now. This UL is there spiritually as someone is watching.  Take care. 

Comment by Martha on September 30, 2013 at 11:36am

Sorry folks, tried to delete the first post, but it did not.

Comment by Martha on September 30, 2013 at 8:10am

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Hi Dia, likewise deepest condolences for all the suffering you are going through. We really have not lost our mothers, they are in a better place, we just miss them so very much. And, rest assure that you will be reunited as we are inmortal souls. To live in India with so much spiritually all around you is a wonderful thing. Get in tune with that, it has saved thru this storm. Also, remember advanced soul have a much difficult journey for that is the path chosen to increase understanding and compassion. My mother's life was a very difficult one, as well, they are souls wanting to evolve more. I am here for you. Namaste

Comment by Martha on September 30, 2013 at 8:09am

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Hi Dia, likewise deepest condolences for all the suffering you are going through. We really have not lost our mothers, they are in a better place, we just miss them so very much. And, rest assure that you will be reunited as we are inmortal souls. To live in India with so much spiritually all around you is a wonderful thing. Get in tune with that, it has saved in thru this storm. Also, remember advanced soul have a much difficult journey for that is the path chosen to increase understanding and compassion. My mother's life was a very difficult one, as well, they are souls wanting to evolve more. I am here for you. Namaste

Comment by Dia -Ayesha on September 30, 2013 at 12:23am

Hi Martha. Please accept my heartfelt condolences for your loss. Like you my mum was my life, my life revolved around her. My mum was the epitome of love, beauty, grace , kindness and dignity.She passed 2 months ago and like you I love her even more now . It always haunts me : whether I willmeet my mum again? Your words are comforting that we will be reunited one day in the spiritual realm . I'm here for you . Please know you can communicate with me anytime. We are all united by our common loss and grief . Take care Martha.

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