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Comment by Dia -Ayesha on November 27, 2013 at 9:53am

Hi Jill,I lost my beloved mom 4 months back . Grief does'nt follow a pattern. I was in shock and disbelief in the initial months. Now the full impact of my loss has hit me. I am undergoing depression, anxiety , insomnia. I feel heartbroken , lost and very lonely. Time is not necessarily a magic wand. The loss we have suffered is tragic and extraordinary. You are not alone. My sincere condolences to you.

Comment by Jill Haupt on November 27, 2013 at 9:28am

You will never get used to it:( I wake up everyday feeling like she will be here and it was a nightmare. I know I will never be the same and right now I just feel lost. I know tomorrow will be so hard. Cynthia my thoughts are with you and its always nice to have someone who knows how you feel....

Comment by Jill Haupt on November 27, 2013 at 9:13am

I feel so sick to my stomach. I don't know hoe I can get through Thanksgiving without my mom. Everyday gets harder and its only been a month. I feel like someone took half of me away when she passed.

Comment by Danny on November 25, 2013 at 1:58am

I'm planning to do the same as Jeff all the way until the end of the year.  Get out of the house or stay submerged in work while inside.  Its too tough otherwise.

Comment by Eliza on November 24, 2013 at 10:32pm

Martha, that is a nice sentiment. Thanks for posting.

Comment by Eliza on November 24, 2013 at 10:32pm

Missing mom a whole bunch as Thanksgiving approaches. Even though it's almost been a year since her death, this will be my first thanksgiving without her. Keep having memories of last year. She was so sick and frail, but we were still together. I certainly wouldn't have wanted her to go on suffering. I just miss her so much.

Comment by Martha on November 23, 2013 at 7:19pm

Yes, Boabie nothing will ever be the same again. It is impossible. The anchor that kept us grounded is no longer on this earth, and we are just drifting along... I understand how you, my friends feel about the Holidays. It is not the same. I just tried to dwell on the spiritual meaning of it all. For Thanksgiving the beauty of gratitude for having a great mother who is now with God (some people never have had that precious gift). And, that keeps me going. 

Comment by Jeff R on November 23, 2013 at 4:02pm

this will be my first Thanksgiving w/out Mom....going to get out of the house...just don't want to dwell on it.  Too depressing. 

Comment by Angela on November 22, 2013 at 11:40pm

Yes Cynthia that hiding somehwere until Thanksgiving is over is how I feel too. This is the first Thanksgiving without my Mom here and it is so hard. As for normal, this so called new normal is not very normal at all. that's why we are all here. But we must go on for our sake for Mom's sake. Hang in there everyone. Let's do this together.

Comment by Wendy (Boabie) on November 22, 2013 at 6:02pm

Martha, I recently said almost the exact same words to another family member. I feel the same way completely! I will never be the same period! We will get through this, but I will never fully get over losing my mom. Not in this lifetime.

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