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Comment by Jeff R on December 4, 2013 at 8:35pm

I don't think you can ever get over the loss of a parent.  Realizing that fact helps bring some perspective to it all, I think.  it is then a matter of endurance of grief and personal readjustment.  Not easy either, but just putting aside the "get over it" part is helpful, I think.  Re: dreams, man I've had a lot over the last few months.  Usually, me, my Mom and other relatives who passed on.  This week, it was me, Mom and my Aunt and Uncle sitting at a table chatting...my Aunt & Uncle have been gone 12 and 15yrs, respectively!  Had a dream about my Dad before that....he's been gone 37yrs!  Weird stuff that your brain does during these difficult times.

Comment by Danny on December 4, 2013 at 6:30pm

Condolences to you Pankaj.

Comment by pankaj bhatia on December 4, 2013 at 6:26pm

My condolences to All here. We all are going through a very hard time it cannot be explained in words. I lost my mom on Aug 19 morning and there hasn't been a day I don't cry. Tears drip all day and everyday I still can't believe she's not with me, she was my life. I just feel like my soul has gone with her and I am just living without soul. I don't know how to cope with this anymore its hard really hard. Does anybody get dreams or signs of your loved one. My mom comes in my dream almost everyday I see her as an angel wearing all white and hugging me sometimes I remember the dream and sometimes I don't. GOD BLESS US ALL. I LOVE YOU MOM WHERE EVER YOU ARE LIFE WILL NOT BE SAME AS LONG AS I LIVE. 

Comment by Jill Haupt on December 3, 2013 at 1:39pm

I am so sorry for your loss Angela. You are so right people do not know what to say and some say things that make us mad. I hear, it will get better and I also hear people tell me I need to be strong. Well for one it doesn't get better I feel worse everyday and I know its because I wake up realizing she isn't here. I was strong through everything with my mom and I right now I cant be strong. I am scared and feel lost. I am glad there are others who understand. Its nice to feel like we are normal and the way we feel is ok:) We are all here to listen and the support is nice...

Comment by Wendy (Boabie) on December 1, 2013 at 3:16pm

Welcome Angela! I lost my mom August of this year to leukemia and I lost my dad August of last year to prostate cancer. I think you will find it very helpful to talk on here with others who know exactly what you are going through. Remember that grieving is a good thing. I will never get over the loss of my parents, but I will get through it and you will too! I am very sorry for your loss, and I am very glad you found this site.

Comment by Dia -Ayesha on December 1, 2013 at 11:26am

Hi Angela. My heartfelt condolences for your loss. I lost my beloved mum this july 22, 2013. Your loss is very recent and tragic. I can relate to your situation. My mum was unwell for the past 14 years and the past 1 year she suffered so much . Everytime I think of it I'm filled with deep anguish and pain. Please know you are not alone . Allow yourself to feel your grief. I'm here for you to lend a ear and my wholehearted support anytime. Take care . Thank you.

Comment by Dia -Ayesha on December 1, 2013 at 11:26am

Hi Angela. My heartfelt condolences for your loss. I lost my beloved mum this july 22, 2013. Your loss is very recent and tragic. I can relate to your situation. My mum was unwell for the past 14 years and the past 1 year she suffered so much . Everytime I think of it I'm filled with deep anguish and pain. Please know you are not alone . Allow yourself to feel your grief. I'm here for you to lend a ear and my wholehearted support anytime. Take care . Thank you.

Comment by Survivor17 on November 30, 2013 at 10:59pm

Thank you ,Jeff and everyone for your loving words and support . To everyone on here , we would not be on here without a common bond of sadness of loss.  I am however grateful for the support and comfort that this community has given to me in my time of sorrow. 

Comment by michael sandoval on November 30, 2013 at 10:11pm

My condolences to everyone.  God Bless us all.

Comment by Jeff R on November 30, 2013 at 9:02pm

Rachel and Niecy,

My thoughts are with you both.

 

Jeff

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