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Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on December 19, 2013 at 1:51pm

hello everyone, im writing this actually about me more than my mom, but i wish she was here to get me through all the fear im going thru with my own health, ive been very sick for a few weeks now and i dont have a solid diagnosis yet, im scared, crying all the time, and dont want to die....i hate feeling this way....im peaceful, I know I'm in God's hands, but we all value our health.....if my mom were alive it would stress her anyways if she knew how sick i am....i hope its found soon and I pray to God and have faith in him that he will heal me soon....this has been more than a terrible ordeal, I'm too young, I want to join my mother someday in heaven, but no time soon if I can at all help it....thank you all for listening and if you have any advice as to how i can calm myself down and not freak out over it, it would be sincerely appreciated....

Comment by Dia -Ayesha on December 14, 2013 at 11:04pm

Hi Martha. Like you since my mum passed away we as a family don't celebrate anything birthdays, festivals. My mum passed 1 day before my birthday. She was hospitalised a week before my birthday and while she was conscious everyday she asked all of us if it was my birthday yet. I feel heartbroken . She was so sick and yet all she did was ask for us , she was so concerned about us even as she was dying . What a great , wonderful, selfless human being and mother she was. I for one know that I will never ever celebrate my birthday again. It just does'nt matter anymore. Nothing does actually.

Comment by Dia -Ayesha on December 14, 2013 at 11:04pm

Hi Martha. Like you since my mum passed away we as a family don't celebrate anything birthdays, festivals. My mum passed 1 day before my birthday. She was hospitalised a week before my birthday and while she was conscious everyday she asked all of us if it was my birthday yet. I feel heartbroken . She was so sick and yet all she did was ask for us , she was so concerned about us even as she was dying . What a great , wonderful, selfless human being and mother she was. I for one know that I will never ever celebrate my birthday again. It just does'nt matter anymore. Nothing does actually.

Comment by Martha on December 14, 2013 at 7:39pm

We all miss our mothers very much. It is human. Since my mother went to God I do not celebrate pretty much anything. Not birthdays, nothing in general. Just think of the spiritual meaning of it all. I know we are all "Passing through" so I tried not to take anything too too serious. I know we will all be with our loved ones again, so that gives me comfort. Take care everybody. 

Comment by michael sandoval on December 14, 2013 at 2:01pm

My Condolences to everyone.  Christmas without Mom and my late wife Denise, feels empty and meaningless again.  I put up mom's decorations and i'm trying to find some joy, but it's not easy.

Comment by Wendy (Boabie) on December 13, 2013 at 11:59pm

Ditto for me Jeff. I feel a bit like Scrooge this Christmas.
My mom was here last Christmas. She was sick, but here. I will try and make it through somehow. I know she'd like for me to be strong for her, so I will try.

Comment by Survivor17 on December 13, 2013 at 8:32pm

Cynthia Gee... I know it must have made you sad but maybe it would be cathartic to actually send her one.  idk... Just a thought 

Comment by Jill Haupt on December 13, 2013 at 6:47am

Jeff my thoughts and prayers are with you. I know what you mean about dreading Christmas. I feel like it will be my big reality check that she is gone. Somedays I think I wzke up feeling like shes not gone. Who knows maybe we havent even realized that they arent coming back. Our lives are changed forever we have a piece of us missing. I know its hard to imagine for some people what we feel but I am thankful for everyone on here for supporting one another.  

Comment by Jeff R on December 12, 2013 at 9:32pm

I'm dreading the upcoming XMas holiday w/out Mom here...had a dream last night that she had survived...but, then in the dream, I realized that she was gone.  Very depressing.  Will do my best to get thru and honor her memory. But, this is the sort of thing that changes holidays completely as you go forward..

Comment by Jeff R on December 12, 2013 at 9:29pm

Dec 12th marks 10 months since my Mom passed but it's also the 1yr anniversary of the sudden passing of my Cousin's wife at the age of 64 (from a flu virus, if you can believe it).  I'll always remember this date, as my Mom kept saying she should've died instead...she was very distraught.  Exactly 2 months later...Feb 12th, my Mom passed away.  Numbers can be awfully strange sometimes....

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