Comment

Comment by Wendy (Boabie) on February 6, 2014 at 10:37pm

@ Michael and Danny, I cried like a newborn yesterday. My mom has been gone for nearly 6 months. @ Missy, you have my heartfelt sympathy! My parents died a slow cancer death. It must be extra hard having to also deal with the suddenness and they way your mom died. I am glad you are in therapy, I went for a while also. I am so very sorry about the murder of your son. Know that I am praying for you to find comfort and the ability to eventually (whenever you feel ready) to move forward, in the midst of your double loss. Blessings Missy.

Comment by Danny on February 6, 2014 at 8:30pm

I hear you Michael.  It happened to me as well this evening.

Comment by michael sandoval on February 6, 2014 at 8:20pm

its been 17 months since my mom passed and i still cry.  i cried hard this morning think of what a great mom she was to me.  how much she loved me and all her children.  she was amazing.  i love you mommy.  thank you for everything.  God bless you.

Comment by Jeff R on February 5, 2014 at 4:56pm

I think it's important to realize that our Mom's would want us to live our lives in good health, as best we can.  I like to think they are watching over us, providing some silent, secret guidance.  I've been preoccupied over the last 6 weeks w/my Aunt (Mom's older sister).  After a bad fall and many weeks in the hospital, she's now in an assisted living facility.  I see so many people there who don't know who they are or where they are...it's tough.  We all have our senses at least and can make decisions for ourselves.  Moms would want us to make the best ones possible, I think.  Next week will be a year for me w/out Mom...where did that year go?  It's mind numbing. 

Comment by Dia -Ayesha on January 25, 2014 at 2:27am

Hi Rachel . I'm in the exact same space as you. Hugs. I'm dealing with major grief , depression, terrible anxiety, insomnia and recently diagnosed with multiple issues. What makes it worse is people around me are so insenstive and expect me to just get on with it. My heart is broken because my beloved mum has gone. Add to that a damaged body and health. Nobody can comfort me . I only want my mum. I need peace but it keeps eluding me. Every thing bothers me , I've becomeultra sensitive. Its so so tragic. I hear you Rachel. Hugs.

Comment by Wendy (Boabie) on January 24, 2014 at 8:35pm

Rachel, it is so hard not having our mom's with us period. I know it must be double hard not having her physically present during your health problems. But, know that she is right there with you in spirit. I speak out loud sometimes as if I'm talking to my mom. I believe she can hear me. She has been gone for 5 months and I still cry often. I pray for you to be blessed and have peace of mind. We may never get over our loss, but with god we will get through it, one day at a time.

Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on January 24, 2014 at 4:25pm

I need peace, I was at peace, but that peace isnt there right now....i'm really struggling, im not mad at God but I pray every night he will release me from this nightmare....there must be a reason he is allowing this to happen....

Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on January 24, 2014 at 4:24pm

hi everyone, im missing my mom alot, mostly becaue im having bad health problems and she was always there to comfort me....its so hard to be patient to find out whats wrong with me....i dont want to die, and im fearful of that.....i cant get my symptoms to calm down so that i dont worry.....i just wish she was here to give me a positive frame of mind....its so hard being sick

Comment by Jeff R on January 19, 2014 at 1:24pm

Rachel spoke of God bringing here peace; there may be some truth to that.  I recently returned to church last summer, about 6 months after Mom passed.  It seems to have helped a bit.  Picked a new church as well...as something of a fresh start. In last night's mass, the priest focused her sermon on how the events of life--such as the loss of a loved one-- can lead you back to the church, as they make you realize that it may not be enough to "go it alone".  There's something missing and returning to your faith helps support you going forward.  Definitely struck a chord for me.

Comment by Jeff R on January 19, 2014 at 1:19pm

congratulations Kristin.  It's hard to accept, but life moves on and we will face many new things...some wonderful and others not so good.  It's hard to find peace at times, as you can never replace your Mom. But you can try to focus on the good memories when they arise, even in your dreams.

• ‹ Previous
• 1
• …
• 310
• 311
• 312
• 313
• 314
• …
• 542
• Next ›
• Page