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Comment by Danny on September 23, 2014 at 5:51am

I am talking to a counselor online now Casey and she's given me tips on and off.  Thats what I need right now just someone to talk a bit here and there while I do my thing. Yes dreams do come in so that is good.

Comment by Casey on September 22, 2014 at 5:33pm

Talking to a counselor does help, Danny..I dreamed about mother today. I was so happy, "mom you are back you are back, how is it possible, i asked?" and she said "I like to know as well."

Comment by Jeff R on September 22, 2014 at 5:22pm

Mom will have been gone for about a year and a half now. It's hard to believe the time has moved so fast; seems like she was with me just a few weeks ago. But, I know that's not true. Next week will be my birthday and it's funny, I really miss her on that day. The one phone call I don't get any longer. It's tough. And, no, you don't forget, you just move forward despite it all.

Comment by Danny on September 21, 2014 at 2:14pm

Today was so tough for me.  I feel drained.

Comment by Casey on September 17, 2014 at 6:06pm

I realize there will always be this huge sense of loss that nothing and no one can ever fill up that sense of emptiness. I am triggered by so many little things, Danny is right, its never over.

Comment by Danny on September 17, 2014 at 2:41am

Just read your story Madeleine and it is amazing how you have managed to stay alive and strong..you obviously have done really well.  But i realize that this cycle of good and bad days when one feels empty is going to go on perhaps forever.

Comment by Madeleine on September 17, 2014 at 2:10am

Its nice to hear the thoughts of others who have also lost their parent 3-4 years ago. I don't feel so alone in the way I feel. Most days I can function normally but there are those days when the hurt surfaces and I feel so empty without my mom.

Comment by Mimi Guiltner on September 16, 2014 at 11:39pm

My mother passed away August 12 2014 and my birthday is coming up next week. I can't stop thinking of last years birthday that spent with her. When I think about this one, and how I was going to go and see her and spend this one with me I start to cry and I feel I I won't stop!
What do I do

Comment by Danny on September 16, 2014 at 6:51am

Great Tans.  The only thing i can add is that i also talk aloud to her as part of my continuing bond when i need to. It is good to hear from people 3-4 years into this. 

Comment by Tans on September 16, 2014 at 6:38am

On the 3rd of October, my mom will have passed away 4 years. I still have bad days, but I also have good days where I can function "normally". There is not a day that goes by that I don't think about her. i know that she is with me and one day i will see her again. All I can say is talk as much as you can about her and never ever let anyone stop you. If you want to cry then cry.

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