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Comment by Casey on December 7, 2014 at 12:13am

http://elitedaily.com/life/ive-learned-year-since-mother-passed/786...

describes the jumble of emotions, the racket of wailings or the enduring isolation that follows when a mother passes. The very fabric of life seems to buckle and cave in from the sheer burden of it all. Sense no longer works as a blanket of indifference that separates you from the raw emotions and delight of life.

Comment by Danny on December 3, 2014 at 5:35pm

david we never 'get over' it if that helps.  Its helped me a bit in knowing that so I go about my routine knowing that its going to hit me at several times in my life in 25 years or whatever. well done J and David.

Comment by Danny on December 3, 2014 at 5:33pm

Absolutely J it never really leaves you so the key is to understand that.  There is no real 'recovery' here.  Grief stays inside us forever but somehow the work to be done has to get done in parallel. 

Comment by Jay on December 3, 2014 at 5:05pm

I think grief is very much cyclical, and I don't think it's wrong to grieve years or decades later. I imagine that even though my mother just passed, many moments will come in my life, be they tomorrow or in 25 years, that I desperately cry for her. 

Comment by david lennon on December 3, 2014 at 12:38pm

hi everyone. I lost me mom 31yrs ago this January. I'm not sure if I should still be upset is that normal? I never seemed to get over mom dying. I was only 19 when she died mom was only 42. I don't think I ever recovered from this it was so hard. Im having a few problems with my oldest son at the moment and feeling a little depressed and I find myself thinking of mom more

Comment by Casey on November 26, 2014 at 5:14pm

A few times I cried out in pain for mom, i see a quick flash of bright light. I sometimes think thats a sign from my mother.  

Comment by Jay on November 26, 2014 at 4:01pm

Thank you, Danny; I have already felt her with me. I'm working my best to allow her spiritual energy to keep me strong. 

Comment by Danny on November 26, 2014 at 3:58pm

She will visit Eliza.  She is there hovering around us J.  Parents dont really leave us do they ?  Yes we miss them and always will.  Eliza take care around the date.

Comment by Jay on November 26, 2014 at 3:01pm

I lost my mom this weekend to a battle with cancer that lasted well over a decade. I'm in my 20s, and I can't believe all of the events that my mom will miss. Although I do know she is with me in spirit, I wish I could see her present. 

Comment by Eliza on November 24, 2014 at 8:02pm

It will be 2 years on Dec 5 since mom died. I am feeling sad again, mostly because I had a beautiful daughter 2 months ago that she never got to meet. I feel her presence a lot, so I hope she comes around and visits.

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