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Comment by Leila on June 2, 2015 at 2:44am

Sending hugs to you, Linda and Maddy. I can't even imagine the pain of losing your mother at such a young age. My heart goes out to you. I lost my mother about 6 weeks ago. She was 86 and I am 52. If my mother had lived to be 100 it would still not have seemed long enough to me. I miss her so much it feels like it crushes me at times.
Do you ever talk to your mom? I still talk to my mother all the time. I feel that somehow she can hear me and is watching over me from heaven. I suppose it sounds crazy, but it helps me to feel I can still tell her how much I love and miss her, and about what is going on in my life. My counselor is not Christian. She tells me this isn't really possible, just something some people do to keep the spirit of their loved one alive a little longer. I choose to believe my mother can hear me.
I am lifting you both up in prayer!!

Comment by Maddy on June 1, 2015 at 9:36pm

I lost my mother in july last year, I had just turned 20. It was a sudden death, and it has been hard for me to move forward after that.
I don't want to bother people I know with my griefing, but I find myself thinking about my mother a lot, and it always makes me very sad and emotional

Comment by charity wolf on May 31, 2015 at 10:30am

Linda, I am so sorry sweetie. Loosing your Mama at such a tender age must be so hard. I hope you know that she is ALWAYS with you, in your heart and soul. You deserve to be a happy young woman. I send you love....

Comment by jill smith on May 28, 2015 at 7:58am

Hi Nancy, I am so sorry for your pain. I was very close to my mother who passed in October. What you are describing is what I miss most about my mom too. Sometimes something good will happen and I want to tell her about it then I feel sad I can't just pick up the phone and call her.

Your mom just passed, maybe 6 weeks ago. That is a tall order for you not to be sad, I am sorry you are feeling people are frustrated with you. I have found there are a couple people who I can count on, but it is hard. I have also found counseling extremely helpful. I have done group and one on one and both have their plusses, but it is nice to be able to talk all I need to. We all grieve so differently and the time it takes varies too. 

Comment by Leila on May 28, 2015 at 1:19am

I miss my mom so much at this moment. I've missed her every moment since she passed on April 18, but my heart is especially heavy tonight and I find that sleep escapes me once again. I wish I could hug her and hear her voice. I never realized how everything I did in life always came back to my mom, what she would think about it, would it make her proud or happy. I can't imagine ever feeling normal or happy again. When I'm with my family or friends I have to pretend I'm okay because that is what is expected. I think they're getting frustrated with me being sad all the time. I'm so sorry for everyone here and the tremendous loss and pain we are all experiencing. Sending prayers out to all...

Comment by charity wolf on May 26, 2015 at 11:05am

Hi Charlene:)

thank you...this is a very painful journey. My friend reminds me that a broken heart, is broken-open. hug

Comment by Charlene Taylor on May 26, 2015 at 6:30am

Thank you Charity, it helps to hear words from someone else. I'm so sorry about your Mom also.

Comment by charity wolf on May 25, 2015 at 8:06pm

Hi Charlene:)

 

 My Mama died in January:( What I have learned is that grief needs a voice. You have to feel the grief and let it move through you. I am sad everyday too and hurt like I never could have imagined. When you love someone so deep than the hurt is just as deep. Please know that your pain is a normal grief response. I send you so much love and peace....heart broken with you...I am so sorry for your loss:(

Comment by Charlene Taylor on May 25, 2015 at 7:27pm

Hi all, it's been almost 5 months since my Mom died. I Thought I was doing pretty good. I've been to see my incarcerated son, my dad got remarried and I went to Colorado to help a dear old friend come back south for health reasons. I stopped my Prozac 2 months ago. Now that things have settled down besides helping my father-in-law who had a stroke, I've feel like I've gone backwards with the almost never ending sadness returning. I think that all I've been doing is keeping so busy with others so I don't feel. Now that I stopped my Prozac it's really helping me "feel" more. I miss my Mom so much!!!! Take care everyone!!!!

Comment by Danny on May 20, 2015 at 2:02pm

Yes guilt and regret..tell me about it.  Working on it.

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