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Comment by Angela smith on August 27, 2015 at 7:17pm

Today  was  a rough day. I literally  counted the minutes of my day that seemed so long without  my mom here  with  me and my siblings .  I have so much to  do  yet could not  accomplish  much today instead I found  myself  praying  to see a sign  from mom that she was still  with  me. I cried  and cried and found  some  comfort  in her photos  with her warm  comforting soft eyes looking  back  at me. Today  I was truly lonely  and  depressed  without  mom.

Comment by Angela smith on August 27, 2015 at 7:12pm

Hugs to  you  charity and all  those who  suffer from sadness and loneliness  without  their  beloved  mom's  to find  comfort .

Comment by Leila on August 25, 2015 at 11:56pm

Thank you so much, Charity. You are the sweetest, kindest person. You always lift us up, support us, and you never judge in any way. I am so happy to have met you here on this group. I believe your mother is looking down from heaven and is so very proud of you.

Comment by charity wolf on August 25, 2015 at 10:29pm

there is always light, fashionlover. It takes healing to see it...please be gentle with yourself...I am sorry for your loss..I know birthdays are rough. sending you love..hug

Comment by charity wolf on August 25, 2015 at 10:26pm

Nancy, your grief journey is normal. Everything you are feeling is part of grief. I am sorry that your Dad is being so insensitive. My Mama flew away 7 months ago and I am still cannot look at her pictures or go to places around town. I have learned that grief has no time line and to trust my bodies wisdom. Be kind to yourself and don't let anyone tell you how to grieve. Your heart is broken...as is mine and everyone else on here. May we all give ourselves the grace we need to heal. sending you love, Nancy:)

Comment by Leila on August 25, 2015 at 7:37pm

My heart and prayers are with everyone here who has experienced this devastating loss. Our sweet, wonderful, mothers who loved us so well are with Our Lord. We are left here trying to pick up the pieces of our broken hearts and find a new way to live our lives. I've been reading everyone's posts, and the feelings expressed are so familiar to me.
I wish this could all be a bad dream. After four months I still cry every day and yearn to have my mother back on earth with me, well and whole. People ask how I am and I reply 'fine' because I know they are asking out of politeness, and 'fine' is the polite thing to say. If I told the truth they would run the other direction as quickly as they could, because they don't really want to know or understand. Only here can I feel safe enough to truly express what I'm feeling.

My dad was hospitalized this week with cardiac symptoms. He has always been abusive to me and my mom. We're not close, but I love him and try to be there for him. They found no evidence of heart problems so he was discharged today. I had to pick him up at the same hospital where my mother suffered for so long. It was so difficult to return to that hospital. I hate it second only to the hospice center where my precious mother breathed her last breath.

I have been crying ever since I left my dad's house, the house that I always loved because my mother was in it. All the photos of me and my family and the things I and the kids made for my mom are still decorating the walls and shelves. My dad nags me almost daily to clear out her room and all the things she held dear. I guess they don't mean anything to him. I don't want her things moved. I want to keep them the same a little longer. Is that abnormal?

Comment by fashionlover on August 25, 2015 at 7:14pm

Today is my mother's birthday. I miss her more and more every day. I can't see light at the end of this long dark tunnel I am in. I just pray to God that I can see a hint of light. 

Comment by John Barry on August 25, 2015 at 4:42pm

http://www.griefshare.org/

Comment by John Barry on August 25, 2015 at 4:42pm

Grief Share  For those, like myself, who are looking for support. Here is the group that helped me through the worst of it. This is a group of people who have recently lost someone, even if it has been years. You need to meet and talk to those who share your experiences.

Comment by Wendy (Boabie) on August 25, 2015 at 4:19pm

Yesterday marked the 2 year anniversary of my beloved mother's passing. I cannot believe it has been two years since I have seen and talked with her. She was my best friend. Two years later and the pain is still overwhelming! I miss you so much mom.

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