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Comment by valerie cox on December 1, 2015 at 1:09pm

Margie i so know your pain i do the same with my moms picture, and i cant stop thinking about her. And Garret, my niece and her kids came on saturday to stay the night and my niece cried after going in my moms room, and she tried to stop herself i told her you can cry all you want she is worth crying about, she said i know but i am trying to be strong for you, i said it just shows you love her and i am glad you do. So yes we are lucky to have had mothers that are worth missing, i think the depth of our grief is the depth of our love for them, and so we know these are great loves we have all had with them. I miss the comfort of her i felt safe in the world with her, My whole life is now turned upside down, i just pray for peace for us all and our moms who we love more than words can ever describe.

Comment by garrett on December 1, 2015 at 12:59pm

It is so unbelievably hard to be positive in times like these but at the end of the day we are all so fortunate to have had people in our lives worth missing as much as we do.

I'd do absolutely anything to have her back but since I know thats not possible I will do the next best thing. And that is to be the best person I can be, she was proud of me when she was alive, and I only plan on making her more proud as an angel.

Love you Mom

Comment by valerie cox on December 1, 2015 at 12:59pm

Hi Garret, i have had many signs that my mom is here still, its of course not the same i know but i know your moms can see and will watch over you guys, she will be be there for the big moments and see, i really believe this. I know it will never be the same, and i wake up with the thoughts of her everyday, and still cry everyday. The holidays are just way to hard to deal with. I am trying to do just one day at a time sometimes its a min at a time, and this morning i told myself christmas is one day, and i am just going to try and not focus on it all for the next 24 days, I dont know if i can do that but i am going to try.

Comment by garrett on December 1, 2015 at 12:55pm

In times like these we have to look at all the good those loved ones did for us, all the love we got from them, and all the memories we created along the way.

(which is of Course much easier said than done)

Comment by Margie S. on December 1, 2015 at 12:55pm

Sorry for you loss, Jackie.  It has been one month and three weeks for me.  Like Valerie I am still crying every day.  I can't stop thinking about her.  I kiss her picture every day and greet her.  Like you I wish I have my mother back.   I miss her so much.   

Comment by garrett on December 1, 2015 at 12:52pm

I have an older brother with an 18 month old and it has been amazing watching him bond with his grandmother. It saddens me to know my nephew and my children(have none yet) will never get to know her personally.

I was sooo lucky and fortunate to have grown up with my grandmother and mom both being healthy and both being unique and amazing spirits.

My grandmother is 84 now and watching her go through the loss of her child (my mom) is nearly unbearable...

Comment by garrett on December 1, 2015 at 12:49pm

Hello Jackie and Valerie and anyone else going through this mess of emotions.

I am 28 and just lost my mother at the age of 57 on 9/25.

Time has frozen since then, I can not believe its the holidays already.

Every morning just before my eyes open yet after my mind has awoke, she is already there with me and on my mind all day everyday...

Comment by valerie cox on December 1, 2015 at 12:42pm

I am so sorry Jackie for your loss. I know the pain. Its been 7 weeks for me and i still cant stop crying, and still begging god to help me get through this and i just want her to come home. I just dont understand why we have to suffer this horrible pain.

Comment by Jackie D on December 1, 2015 at 10:40am

I lost my Mom a week and a half ago and the pain is unbearable.  I keep wanting to text her to tell her something funny I saw, or something funny my son did and when I remember she's not there to text anymore the pain is horrible.  Every time my unborn daughter kicks it's a reminder that my Mom won't get to meet her.  I just wish I had my Mom back.

Comment by valerie cox on November 24, 2015 at 6:48pm

Yes. Chris it does make you wonder. So true the love for your mom is like no other, and their love for us the same, thats why i think its so hard, when we lose that unconditional love, i know they still are with us , but its not the same. And thank you Chris for your kind words.

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