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Comment by Casey on December 16, 2015 at 1:39am

Garett, i totally understand. My mother passed away at 56 and i was 30， no husband or kids. I never thought in my wildest dream i will never see my mother again in this life. Time will never be abe to lessen that pain and missing.

Comment by garrett on December 15, 2015 at 10:02pm

All I ask is HOW DID THIS HAPPEN and WHYYYYYYYY.

my mom was 57 I am 28.

I thought I would have 30 or so more years with this amazing being..how wrong was I?!

Foolish to believe I would be so lucky.

Comment by valerie cox on December 15, 2015 at 6:56pm

Charity, yes i have been reading what grief does to our bodies, it really takes its toll on us. And yes we can all cry together.

Megan, thank for sharing that post with us i am going to put it on my facebook page.

Margie, i know how you feel my life will never ever be the same . I cry about the good memories, the bad images from the end the  the big hole in my heart. I still find it hard to accept that she isnt here physically, i dont think i ever will. I am greatful for everyone here.

Comment by Margie S. on December 15, 2015 at 2:27pm

Megan,

I just finished reading the message you found on facebook.  Thank you for posting it.  I'm always remembering the good moments I had with mom, but it does not matter how beautiful they were, I always cry.  She was so adorable.  I miss her so much.  We will always live with a big hole in our hearts.  That's the way life is now, different, very different.  Learning how to live this way is very hard for me.  I feel like mom has taken me with her.  

Comment by Megan on December 15, 2015 at 1:33pm

I saw this on Facebook today and so thought it was nice.

"Someday you will be faced with the reality of loss. And as life goes on, days rolling into nights, it will become clear that you never really stop missing someone special who’s gone, you just learn to live around the gaping hole of their absence.When you lose someone you can’t imagine living without, your heart breaks wide open, and the bad news is you never completely get over the loss. You will never forget them. However, in a backwards way, this is also the good news. They will live on in the warmth of your broken heart that doesn’t fully heal back up, and you will continue to grow and experience life, even with your wound. It’s like badly breaking an ankle that never heals perfectly, and that still hurts when you dance, but you dance anyway with a slight limp, and this limp just adds to the depth of your performance and the authenticity of your character. The people you lose remain a part of you. Remember them and always cherish the Good moments spent with them."

Comment by charity wolf on December 14, 2015 at 10:41am

Thank you Valerie and Margie...my Mama has almost been gone a year now. Time is so strange in grief. I have healed enough to work and enter back into life but My heart is still so wounded and raw. I think differently, I feel different, I think I look different. I get sick easier and sore all over. I am sure you all know how I feel. We never GET OVER it. Our beloved Mamas will always be in spirit and not body. That is so hard to process. I just give myself grace everyday to feel whatever comes up and to listen to my body and soul. May you all do the same. May you always know that your beloved Mamas are in your hearts and not gone. I weep with you....

Comment by Megan on December 14, 2015 at 5:46am

Yes, Valerie, I agree that it is the most difficult thing I have ever been through. I know that my husband and friends try to understand, but they won't be able to until it happens to them. I am so grateful to be able to speak with you all. xx

Comment by valerie cox on December 13, 2015 at 7:14pm

And i am so glad we have a place here to say how we are really feeling, and people who know exactly what were going through.

Comment by valerie cox on December 13, 2015 at 7:12pm

And agree this is the hardest part of life losing our moms. I dont even recognize me or my life right now. All i know is sadness and pain, but i will hang on to god for help.

Comment by valerie cox on December 13, 2015 at 7:09pm

Charity, your words touched me i feel the same way. Margie i just feel for you too, its all so painful sad and to hard. My heart bleeds for us all.

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