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Comment by Jessie Maghrabi on September 15, 2016 at 7:28am

How can anyone cope with loosing a mother, i have lost my mom 4 months ago for breast cancer and i dont want to realise it till now that she is gone.

It's like i am in a bad dream a really bad one and i cant wake up, i was the one taking care of her, going to all her chemo sessions and discussing her case with her doctors and she was fine she was getting better and suddenly she had a stroke and went into 22 days of coma before she passed away...i told her when she was in a coma to let go to leave to go home but now i cant let go of her.

Life has been tasteless, i cant find a purpose anymore since she is gone..i cant work, i cant find my passion anymore.

I feel this sharp pain when i suddenly realize she is gone, i hate holidays and events, i cant deal with friends on the same level like before, i want to stay by myself most of the time.

I miss my mom.

Comment by Gregory on September 14, 2016 at 4:03pm

Yes, it is very hard David.  I don't think our mothers go away forever.  Their spirit is always around you, it's just not in her body like you were used to seeing it.  Look in other places and you might find little things that reassure that she is still there watching out for you.  

Comment by David B on September 14, 2016 at 3:08pm

My heart goes out to all that have experienced the trauma of loosing their mother. It is by far the most traumatic and life changing event in my life and it has been 13 yrs and I still have not found peace. I still cry when I really need her and I have nobody to comfort me and reassure me this too shall pass. I realize that I may never get over this loss and that really is hard to live with. Being alone is so hard when you need love to survive and there is nobody there. I love you and miss you Mom!

Comment by Monica on September 13, 2016 at 8:32am

Good question Theresa! Im at 10months now and ive wondered the same thing. Ive heard the 1st year is the hardest,,but it still feels like just yesterday she was here with me, and still i find it hard to navigate life without her love and guidance. I sometimes feel frustrated when i feel people expect me to be moving forward...i mean,,,ive had NO choice right? But this pain still cripples me and i cant apologize for that. Im still getting to know this NEW and grieving ME..without my beloved Mother.

Comment by Theresa on September 13, 2016 at 4:38am

Nancy I hope you are on the mend from your fall...

I have saved phone messages from my mom, I jut can't bring myself to listen them for fear of a meltdown.

Now everytime something hurts or I don't feel well there is no mom to say you'll be fine.  

Has anyone been through a year yet? I was wondering is it true the first year is the worst??

Comment by Jean on September 12, 2016 at 8:46pm

Nancy I know how you feel.

Comment by Monica on September 12, 2016 at 8:04pm

OH Nancy!!!! Thats horrible..im soo sorry to hear,& so glad you are atleast better but yes its another wanting my Mom moment. Not childish..childlike feeling...yep!!!i think we all might have some if not many of those.Orphaned feelings, lingering lonliness for your comfort, support, protector...the one who loved us FIRST!! She who gave love, taught love. ---My condolences to everyone. Bless all of you & thank u for sharing. - Yesterday i spent a tearful 46th birthday for the first time without Mom. She would always leave a singing bday msg. I saved them since 2013..so i needed to hear her..i smiled as tears flowed down my face..i weeped, i cried harder,,i prayed, talked to her..lonely for Mom. Just lonely for Mom oh how i miss you so terribly!!!! May God grant mercy on our heavy hearts. Bless u all

Comment by Heather on September 12, 2016 at 7:42pm

Oh wow! So sorry to hear of your accident:-(... It's definitely not childish to want your Mom....I feel the same way, too! Now that she isn't here anymore, I don't feel as safe...I constantly check doors and windows before bed every night (at least 4 or 5 times within minutes of last checking), to make sure everything is locked up:-0...I just don't feel secure anymore, without her:-(

Comment by Leila on September 12, 2016 at 7:29pm

I took a nasty fall on a concrete slab on Thursday. I broke my left wrist and forearm, and have deep wounds and bruises on my hands and knee. My first thought was I wanted my mom. It's my first time going through any health issue without her at my side. If she were here she would spend every day with me until my husband got home from work. We would watch old movies, talk, and play scrabble. She would even sit with me while I napped. I would be eating her delicious home cooked meals every day. I know I sound childish, but I want my mom. :-((

Comment by David B on September 12, 2016 at 7:06pm

This time of year reminds me of Mom.We used to make applesauce together. It made our family home smell so wonderful. This time of year makes me happy and very ssd.Thanksgiving was my favorite time of year when she was alive. She was a great cook and we always ate well and enjoyed the family time. My birthday is the week of Thanksgiving it has never been the same since she died. She knew how to make me feel lived, she was so kind and thoughtful. Being alone now I can't help but cry thinking of what I had and lost. It really is hard to find happiness or try to create it for myself. I just pray for a better experience...

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