So frustrated and Confused

I joined this site in order to share stories and each others pain. Unfortunately I rarely get a response to any of my post. Im not sure what to do. I love talking to others that have suffered a loss and understand where I am. Unfortunately people rarely respond, and it makes me incredibly sad

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Permalink Reply by anna l. on June 1, 2013 at 10:43pm

Gina, I am so sorry for you loss and for your experiences and feeling with this site.  I at times am here a lot and respond often, then other times like the past couple of months I don't comment because I am just not in a good place myself.  I hope you stick with it as we all are on this roller coaster of emotions together.  Some days we can share or offer advice and others we have nothing left to offer.  But we do all care how you are doing even if we cant write the words. 

 

Permalink Reply by dream moon JO B on June 3, 2013 at 3:54pm

sory abot yore loss gina it depends on how peple feal  i no som days i feal up thn i feal rock botem again i no som tims thr isa lot of us on chat or som tims ther is no body on chat if im on chat just say hi som body will say hi to u chat if thy r on chat it depends on th difrnt tim zones wish iv oly lernd lst yr 

jo

Permalink Reply by Barbara Palko on June 8, 2013 at 5:53pm

Gina, I to feel that way. I have been in a blue mood for two weeks now. I feel like I just don't give a darn.

My parents died back in822 and 83 so I often felt like an orphan. no my oldest son died at 31 om March 14.2013 and im really lost. I live alone and talk to my other son once aweek and friends but there are times I don't want to do that. just take 1 day at a time.

Barbara

 

Permalink Reply by Gina Stone on June 9, 2013 at 12:39pm

Barbara, I am so very sorry for your loss. Thank you for your kind comments. Yes I think there is not much else to do but to take each moment as it comes. Blessings Gina

Permalink Reply by Bonnie Jacobs on June 20, 2013 at 5:23pm

I'm sorry it has taken me so long to reply to you. I have been very depressed and sad. You said you read my story and I'm sure you understand. I consider the date that Sara went into the hospital (Dec 15) the day she really died. She had no pulse and no oxygen for over 10 minutes. They kept her alive for almost 5 months but to no avail. She had her 29th birthday in the hospital and then 3 days later was Christmas. It has been 6 months since I lost her and you are right, anniversaries are very hard. If anyone tells me one more time to take it one day at a time I am going to scream. It is with me all day everyday and I miss her and love her so much.

How are you doing? The only thing that keeps me going is you and the other folks that have suffered a great loss. We are not alone, even though it may feel like it. I will write to you again. Sending hugs and light.

Permalink Reply by Lia Lisa Saling on July 15, 2013 at 2:56pm

(((((Gina)))))

That's all I've got at the moment...but I do understand.

I'm frustrated and confused, too.

And incredibly sad.

 

-L

Permalink Reply by Kari Hurley on July 24, 2013 at 11:04pm

Wow I feel the same way. I have not been on in awhile for that reason. I have Facebook and am on 2 private sites and I get more response there.

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