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When does the Pain dissapate
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I know this is not a straight answer. I lost my fiancee one month ago on Thursday. I cry every single day.I try to hold myself in until I get in my car, then I scream and cry until I get home\\Just…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Dennis C. Jul 9, 2016.

Religion and the unexpected loss of a soulmate
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Hello,I am really needing to hear what people who are religious cope with the loss of a loved one (unexpectedly). I believe in God but my fiancee was a Christian and was going to start volunteering…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by kathy kwasnica Jun 10, 2016.

Commiserating over an unexpected loss
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Hello,I was happy up until May 19th. I was involved in a year long relationship with the love of my life.On the 19th I came home to find him on the floor. Since we talked every day and he didn't call…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Dennis C. Jun 11, 2016.

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About Me:
I am a 53 year old female who has lived alone most of her life. 14 months ago I found my soul mate. We moved in together and finally got a new place for the both of us
About my Loss:
On May 19th I cam home from work to find him on the floor. By the look in his eyes I knew he was gone, plus he was cold.

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At 5:34pm on June 14, 2016, CindyA said…
Hi Kathy,
It's ok to feel that way.. That's why I'm here to find people that understand my pain. My husband died May 22 so I just lost him as you lost your love. I get the sick hing too because I too have been sick & nearly died in September of last year.. I think to myself "I'm the sick one" not him .. He too complained from time to time from chest pain & I never thought for a moment there was something wrong with his heart.. I believe people come into our lives for a reason & it's important to cherish the time u had.. I cherished mine & im sure u did yours.. Be well & care for you .. That's what I'm trying to do but it's difficult I know .
At 11:58am on June 9, 2016, FLORA said…

Hi Kathy, I'm so sorry for your loss. I can totally relate to how you are feeling. Our stories are so very similar, I lost the love of my life on Feb. 15th of this year, We were together for 8 and a half years, and although we didn't live together, we were together almost everyday, he either stayed by me, or I stayed by him, and we talked and texted each other all day long. This one particular night that we weren't together, the next day, I didn't hear from him, He wasn't answering my calls or my texts, the whole day, I had this terrible bad feeling, I was in a panic, so after work, I went straight to his apartment and that's where I found him, in his bed. all I could do was grab him. In an instant my whole life changed!!! someone just ripped my heart out of my chest!!!! and the pain and anxiety was unbearable! I just couldn't believe it, it was all a nightmare! I have never felt so must physical and emotional pain in my life!! it's still fresh for me, but over the days I've started to feel a little better, I still have bad days but I try and keep busy and I spend as much time with my family as possible, and that does help. I'll always love and miss him very much, he was and will always be the love of my life,  but I also know that while I'm still here I have to live. I deserve that and so do you. We just have to take things one day at a time. I so feel your pain Kathy, and again I'm so very sorry. also, I too will be 53 next month.

 
 
 

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