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Permalink Reply by Kevin Velez on October 15, 2011 at 9:34pm

Dear Llana,

 

I understand the grief you are going through.  I'm sure it's been a roller coaster ride and unfortunately it's a ride that may never end.  it seems the stronger the bond the longer the ride will be.  please don't compare your grief to anyone - that will only drive you mad.  focus on getting better and drop the perception you have of your dad and brother (even if it's right).  your physical and mental health is invaluable and will help you inch your way to feeling some sort of balance.  I lost my mother on June 1, 2011 and I'm still devastated.  I cry everyday but the reality is she is gone and no matter how hard I cry she's not coming back.  I love my mom and that will always be with me.  I will miss her until the day I die and I will cry for as long as I have to.  the love you have for your mother is strong and the pain you feel is equally as strong.  keep moving forward.  make your mom proud and work on healing yourself.  your dad and brother may not be showing your their pain. 

Stay strong! 

Permalink Reply by Rachel Lynn Schuler on October 18, 2011 at 7:25pm

im so sorry for your loss, and i sympathize because i lost my mom quickly too...i lost her within 2 weeks of diagnosis.....she had endometrial cancer.....i did get to say goodbye, but what unfairness and the unexpectance level is the hardest part....i feelfor you.....i visited hergravebut it was just a place, it didnt seem like her place of peace....she is with me...god bless...remember, YOUR NOT ALONE.....never,and god is there