No one cares after spouses death.

Today was the 4th birthday my Husband has had since he died. I did a post on Facebook sending him a Happy Birthday in Heaven card. One one single person in my family made one comment, I had one from a friend. It seems to me that after you die no one gives a shit. So what's the sense of me staying alive, he was the love of my life. it if wasn't for my religious beliefs I would end my life. 

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Permalink Reply by Linda Engberg on July 11, 2017 at 9:12am

Thanks Anne, Linda

Permalink Reply by Jean on July 15, 2017 at 10:58pm

We lost a dear friend two months ago. Tragic motorcycle wreck on his way to work, My husband introduced him to his wife way back in 1996. My husband and Jim were good friends and texted each other every morning before work. I am worried about my husband.

We think about Jim everyday. We worry about his wife and are not sure what to do. She is wanting to take 6 month sabbatical from work and we are concerned she will lose her job and health insurance. I know that making quick decisions after the death of a dear loved one is not a good idea. How do we help? Is it none of our business? 

Permalink Reply by Jackie cooke on July 11, 2017 at 5:29pm
That's such a happy picture, made me smile. Hugs jackie x
Permalink Reply by Linda Engberg on July 12, 2017 at 9:38am

Thank You, he was a beautiful man.

Permalink Reply by Jon-Paul Ackerman on July 20, 2017 at 9:31pm
No. Nobody cares. We have nobody. All we have is Our decisions. The One we love most never leaves Us. We have become One. Is the beauty of true marriage. Not even death can do Us part.
Permalink Reply by Linda Engberg on July 21, 2017 at 7:02am

That was beautifully said Jon-Paul

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