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Permalink Reply by Oleta Cato on November 17, 2016 at 10:25am

I'm sure most of us feel this way.  It's a horrible club WE belong too.  "The Widow's Club".  I think I'd die if my husband were not waiting for me.  The thought keeps me going.  I'll love him till I die....and even then...

Permalink Reply by CJ Moore on November 17, 2016 at 11:24am

Agreed 100%

Permalink Reply by Fran on November 17, 2016 at 4:27pm

PERFECT! After 2 years I feel this way more than ever!

Permalink Reply by Sabrina on November 17, 2016 at 8:11pm

❤️

Permalink Reply by bluebird on November 17, 2016 at 8:19pm

I don't know if there is an afterlife or not, so I don't have the hope that some of you have. Regardless, though, my husband and I will ALWAYS be married. He will ALWAYS be my husband, and I will ALWAYS be his wife. Nothing will ever change that.

Permalink Reply by Ruthie on November 18, 2016 at 11:53am

Hazel, I lost my love in January also.  This site has been a god send as grief groups did not work out for me.

Permalink Reply by Maxey on November 18, 2016 at 1:47am

This is so weird since I was just thinking this exact thing today. I will ALWAYS be married and also wear my wedding ring. Many people have said to remove it - NEVER.

Permalink Reply by Oleta Cato on November 18, 2016 at 5:49am

It will be a year next month.  I still wear my wedding ring.  Why remove it?  I am still married, in my heart.

O.

Permalink Reply by Linda Engberg on November 18, 2016 at 9:31am

Hazel,

That is beautiful. I wear Julian's ring around my neck.

Today I am having a tattoo with his signature and it will be done with his

ashes included. Nowihe will really be with me always. 

Permalink Reply by Linda Engberg on November 19, 2016 at 7:02am

Hi Hazel,

Getting a tatoo does not hurt at all, I attached a picture of the one I just had done, I also have three more, one on each wrist and one on the back of my neck. But the one I just had has Julian's ashes in it, so he will always be close to me.

Regards, Linda

Permalink Reply by Linda Engberg on November 19, 2016 at 2:06pm

Hi Hazel,

I can relate to the low days that you think you will lose your mind. The signature is Julian's from the last Valentine card he gave it.

Regards, Linda

Permalink Reply by Linda Engberg on November 20, 2016 at 6:58am

Hi Hazel,

Sunday's are rough, we both watched football together and without his is not as enjoyable. My family all live in Michigan so diner is with Babie J. Sometimes I go out to dinner with my best friend, who also lost her husband.

Enjoy Your family, Linda

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