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Permalink Reply by Traci Ann on June 19, 2016 at 10:56am

I can relate to that. I lost my dad on Feb 19,2012. for the longest time everytime someone said it would get easier and the pain will ease. I was like yeah right. But I know that the pain has eased for the most part. but I still miss him dearly. All I can say is to remember all the good times. Remember that he is watching over you and is near you just can't see him. But it does get better in time. But make sure you let yourself grief. There is no time for grief it depends on you. If someone tells you to just get over it... DON'T listen because you got to give your time to heal. I still miss my dad very much and many times which he wasn't gone. but what helps me is remember his most like songs. which i will go on youtube and listen to them. while looking at his pictures. Sometimes I will laugh and sometimes I will cry. Because i want it to be real and not just memories. Talking about him helps to. rather its with a friend or family. But My advice to you would be let the grief help you to heal because if not you wont get better. and remember he is around you just can't see him but you can feel them. I won't lie the first year is going to be your worst. but it will get easier over the years. birthdays, holidays, fathers day, are the worst for me still. I hope this helps you. 

Permalink Reply by Jessica Guilford on June 19, 2016 at 3:27pm

Thank you for your response! It helps knowing that I'm not the only one going through this. All I want is for it to get easier! I miss him so much everyday. This is my first Fathers Day without him and I won't lie I didn't think it'd be this hard. I just wish I could hug him and say one last goodbye.

Permalink Reply by dream moon JO B on July 4, 2016 at 3:45pm

sorry 2 say no dad died in 2012 multi loss sisne 2012 u cud say had loss evy yr u cud say do it yore way i say dnt let any 1 tell u way u feal iv lenrt it