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Permalink Reply by nancy on November 2, 2010 at 4:47pm

Hello Caiti,
Welcome to the group we all know all to well about loss. I lost my gran feb. 2008 and its very hard to cope with.
I wish i could tell you that it will get better with time but for me its still hurts as bad as the day she died for me anyway. You just need to talk,cry and vent when you need to that is the key to coping. If you keep it all inside it will drive you insane. Always know that we are all here for you

Permalink Reply by Carmen on November 2, 2010 at 5:19pm

Dear Caiti,

I know what you are going through..losing my grandma was the worst thing in my life too.I cant say the 2 yrs she has been gone is easier now and there are still moments when i dont think i can go on, but i have learned talking about her to anyone who would listen has helped.I also made a memory bracelet that i wear and when things get tough i look at it and know she is always with me. get different beads that when you look at them it reminds you of something about her..like i have 2 green leaves on mine that remind of the love of plants she had and that she taught me 2 tear drops beads for the 2 yrs she has been gone .2 hearts that are hers and mine..something to think about.i love my bracelet! We are here together to support each other through the tough times.