It's going on 3 months and it still doesn't seem real. I sit looking at pictures and cry. Sometimes I can hear her voice, and I have dreams of being with her in a very pleasant place sitting down talking and she reassures me that she' s ok and to take care of myself. Some days are good and some bad. I think about her sons ages 9 and 6 and it hurts so bad.

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Hi Maria, I am so sorry for your loss.  All of us in this group understand.  Post on the 'Missing My Son Or Daughter' page any time you feel like sharing.  I have not been on much myself lately, but I do read the posts and get the updates.  That is how I saw you joined, and I didn't see any comments here for you so I wanted to let you know you are not alone in this place.  I wish I had some words of comfort, but words really don't comfort.  I hope knowing that others care helps some.  I have been depressed myself lately so I may not be making much sense.  Have a lot going on in our lives that I would rather not have to deal with, but life does go on.  And then there are the holidays.  Need I say more?  Take care of yourself, do what you need to do for yourself.  

Thank you so much Ammy

Three months is still really fresh for grief. Three months is when the shock wore off for me. I hope you can find some kind of comfort soon. 

Thanks Ashley I am trying taking one day at a time.

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