Tammy, I am so sorry for your losses, and I'm sorry I didn't see your page sooner.  We hate to welcome anyone to this site, but as you probably have seen, there are many of us here.  The wall on Missing my son or daughter is a good place for venting and getting support.  Please come there and introduce yourself or post anything as we don't always see newcomers.

I know how hard it is for you right now and with the holidays approaching it can make it unbearable.  We do understand.  We are all going through this.  Some have been here longer than others, but we all have lost a part of ourselves and I can't imagine how torn you are with losing a daughter and a granddaughter. 

My thoughts are with you.  (((Hug)))