It's been 5 months and it feels no different than 5 months ago. The tears just keep coming. My husband of 20 yrs died suddenly at age 44. I was told it gets easier, but does not feel like it at all. The shock, the anger, the disbelief, the why, the hurt, the tears, the fear, everything still feels fresh. I get it all out when I see a therapist, but I want to be able to live one day without all that. I want to be able to have fun with my kids again without feeling sorry for them. They had the best dad in the world. He lived for his kids. It just sucks.....

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Comment by Pamela philipp on October 9, 2016 at 7:35pm
it's been a year for me since my mom and husband left they died within a week of each other to answer your question I don't know because I cry everyday and I have been told that time heals I personally don't believe that but all I can tell you is try and remember all the good memories maybe that will help you so sorry for your loss
Comment by dream moon JO B on September 8, 2016 at 4:45pm

dnt no i no few pepl r still cryin 30 40 yrs latr dnt let no 1 tell u way u shid feal iv sean on hear evn my own lif u shud be ovr it by now not loss huby but loss lot of famly frnds so on i hav 

Comment by bluebird on September 7, 2016 at 8:58pm

I always hesitate about responding to posts like yours, because I cannot offer anything upbeat -- my husband died nearly four years ago, and it is horrific for me now as it was then.  It has never changed. For me, it never will.

The reason I decided to respond to your post (and often do to others as well) is that I want you to know you're not alone.  I waited to see if anyone else would respond, maybe with the kind of hope that I am unable to provide, but since they didn't I wanted you to at least know that your post was seen, and read, and that there are people here who understand (as well as another person who is not you can understand) how you feel.

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