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Comment by emma on October 13, 2016 at 10:35am

thank u for your comment , she was just being selfish and still is but what can you do , I tell her how I feel now , before I couldn't say anything ...

Comment by Billy Jo Colt on October 12, 2016 at 12:43pm

Dear Emma, Without knowing the full story. It is difficult to give any thoughts. The most important thing is that you do forgive your Mom. For me that is the first step on this long journey. Maybe your Mom was trying to protect you from the hurt and pain. Maybe she was being selfish and didn't want anyone else involved in her husbands illness and death. I feel sad for you as you never got the oppertunity to speak to your Dad before he died. Another thought, maybe that he didn't want you upset either. The important thing if for you to move on. Not until you are ready. That is important as people move on when they are not ready and suffer the consequences later. Please take your time and think about forgiving your Mom. That is the easy part. Don't hold anger if you can. Anger is a negative emotion and hanging on to it only affects us more. Take care hugggggs, John