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I'm trying to leave all these pain full thoughts behind and move forward , its not easy as my shrink says ..... How do u forgive your own mom for pushing u away when my dad was ill and died that's my main pain full thing ...
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Comment by emma on October 13, 2016 at 10:35am
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thank u for your comment , she was just being selfish and still is but what can you do , I tell her how I feel now , before I couldn't say anything ...
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Dear Emma, Without knowing the full story. It is difficult to give any thoughts. The most important thing is that you do forgive your Mom. For me that is the first step on this long journey. Maybe your Mom was trying to protect you from the hurt and pain. Maybe she was being selfish and didn't want anyone else involved in her husbands illness and death. I feel sad for you as you never got the oppertunity to speak to your Dad before he died. Another thought, maybe that he didn't want you upset either. The important thing if for you to move on. Not until you are ready. That is important as people move on when they are not ready and suffer the consequences later. Please take your time and think about forgiving your Mom. That is the easy part. Don't hold anger if you can. Anger is a negative emotion and hanging on to it only affects us more. Take care hugggggs, John
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"I lost my daughter to leukemia, and the pain changed my life forever. Learning to live with this loss has not been easy, but I chose to turn my grief into something meaningful.
Today, I create oil paintings on canvas of loved ones who have passed…"
"I lost my daughter to leukemia, and the pain changed my life forever. Learning to live with this loss has not been easy, but I chose to turn my grief into something meaningful.
Today, I create oil paintings on canvas of loved ones who have passed…"
"I lost my daughter to leukemia, and the pain changed my life forever. Learning to live with this loss has not been easy, but I chose to turn my grief into something meaningful.
Today, I create oil paintings on canvas of loved ones who have passed…"
"I lost my daughter to leukemia, and the pain changed my life forever. Learning to live with this loss has not been easy, but I chose to turn my grief into something meaningful.
Today, I create oil paintings on canvas of loved ones who have passed…"
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"I lost my daughter to leukemia, and the pain changed my life forever. Learning to live with this loss has not been easy, but I chose to turn my grief into something meaningful.
Today, I create oil paintings on canvas of loved ones who have passed…"
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