Sounds crazy to think that our refuge exists in our capacity to love.......death.  Only then will we begin to see change.

"Healing After Loss" offers us this:  If we learn to love death, the truth, or all that is, we can slowly unlock the chains that have kept us in denial and anger.  We can stop insisting on having something back that is never coming back.  Instead we can accept what has happened and rejoice in the life we have.

"I will try to open my hands - and my heart - to life as it is now.