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Susan Z Z Wooten
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- Greenville, SC
- United States
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- About Me:
- I lost a husband of 10 wonderful years to cancer in 2005. I curled up in a fetal ball for a couple of years. Finally, my best friend introduced me to a man whom I fell in love with. We had a year together, and got engaged. Two months later he was diagnosed with mesothelioma and passed soon after (2009). I am overwhelmed with grief. The past 7 yrs have been so difficult. If it weren't for my son I don't know how I would still be here. I am here on this site to find help...and to help others. God Bless us all.
- About my Loss:
- Losing two husbands (one a fiance) in 4 years is awful. Now my parents are in their 80's. Perhaps my life has helped me to bear losing them? Who knows? All I know is it seems so abysmal sometimes. I love to laugh (my way of keeping sane!!) when times are hard. Would like to maybe help other people and get to know some people that have shared some of the same things. As we all know, "when you grieve, 'friends' leave..." What you have left are the real friends...looking for some true friends that understand. xoxo
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moral dilemma
My friend Chris who has been dear to me for 20 yrs has pancreatic cancer.
long story short, he is in denial.
he has told friends that he has a pistol, and would rather take that way than tell his mom or daughter.
to be fair, they have gone through a lot. Chris's dad just died this past spring from pancreatic cancer. and so did an uncle and 2 aunts.......
i have watched my husband and a fiance both die horribly.
cancer
so i kind of understand what…
ContinuePosted on November 17, 2011 at 8:26pm
Hopefully I can help win this time.
Kenny, then Ben, and now Chris. All terminal cancers. What am I trying to do with Chris? Not re-live past losses. Am I trying to win this time to conquer past losses????
I hope that isn't it.
Cause Chris and I have had 20 yrs of friendship....we tried dating a long time ago, but realized we were better friends. Through all life has been handing us, we have remained close.
Now I am standing by his side. Pancreatic cancer. I have to question whether I am masochistic,…
ContinuePosted on September 26, 2011 at 8:53pm — 1 Comment
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Hi Susan
So sorry for your losses. Big hug.
Hi Susan,
I am not doing so good again.. My uncle Joe died yesterday.. It has been only 8 weeks that my Grandma died and now my favorite uncle i was also close with.. I feel so torn and broken even more.. ThankYou for being my friend and thankyou for all your prayers it means soo much to me..
Hi,Susan. I hope I didn't speak 'out of turn'; I didn't mean to say anything inappropriate to you. I would probably do the same thing in a similar situation. We all do what we need to do, when we need to do it...
Hang in there.
Cynthia