Grandma sewing room
So I am almost done with cleaning my grandmas sewing room that wasn’t touched in 10 years because of all the mess, but now that she passed away 2 days ago, I don’t know if I should continue, I wanna finish what I started but I don’t know what to do, my grandpa is still alive and I don’t want to leave this burden on him.See More
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Hi Jack,
Haven't been on here in awhile, just thought I would see how you are doing. I'm not crying as much as I used to, and that makes me feel like I'm going to eventually forget, which I do not want! I feel guilty for not crying all the time, it sounds silly, don't know if you can relate or not. I'm going to have my husbands memorial in Maryland in June. Try to get some closure. My step daughter just came to visit me this weekend, she lives in Wisconsin. So it was a nice weekend. Hope you are doing better, and I hope to hear from you soon. Take care.
Just wanted to say Hi............. am thinking about my mom, and feeling sad, its always hardest at night.
Our little boy was a maltese/bichon. We were babysitting him for a neighbor ..and she had a stroke and a heart attack at the same time, and was no longer able to take care of him, so we adopted him. My husband LOVED that dog more than anything. He was a wreck till the day he died because of the dogs death. We have his ashes in a beautiful hand lasered wooden box with his picture on top. I'm still looking for the "perfect" urn for my husband. I just get so sad, I always end up closing out of the internet and going to bed before I can find anything. Everyone tells me to be happy for him because he is out of pain now....Its just not that easy. Someone you have loved with your whole heart and soul to all of a sudden be gone....that is really rough. Now I'm old, and broken, so I feel like I'll never feel happy again. The real kicker is ... I'm o.k. when I'm at work. Go figure!
Hi Jack,
I see you just joined, so did I. I'm hoping it will help me talk to others feeling the same pain as myself. I'm so sorry about your losses, it seems things happen all at once, trust me I know. I seriously think I am the unluckiest person in the world. After 14 years of marriage my husband left me for his physical therapist, also one year after my mother died of MS. Didn't think I'd ever recover from that! But I did and a year later I met my soul mate, and love of my life, which is why I'm here now....I found him Nov 13th face down on the floor, dead of a heart attack. I had gotten him up at 6 am that morning to go hunting, I went back to bed, got up at 10 to go to the bathroom, and found him. Had to indure Thanksgiving, our 16 wedding anniversary and then Christmas. I feel like theres nothing left in life. So....Jack, I know what you are going thru, and I feel for you. Your Sister was the same age as me. I work in a hospital, and I see death each day, but now I see it in a new light. Life is just too hard and cruel. What kind of dog did you have? Right before my husband passed we lost or 21 yr old. Well, I see you are off line now, sorry I blabbed so much. Take care. Theresa.