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After Death Communication
~ Joyous Reunions With Deceased Loved Ones ~
©1995; by Bill Guggenheim & Judy Guggenheim
co-authors of Hello From Heaven! published by Bantam Books
Have you been contacted by a loved one who has died? After-death communication (ADC) is probably as old as mankind, but ours is the first complete research study of this field. These spiritual experiences are extremely common, and in many other parts of the world they are discussed openly and freely.
Between 1988 & 1995, we interviewed 2,000 people who live in all fifty American states and the ten Canadian provinces. Ranging in age from children to the elderly, they represent diverse social, educational, economic, occupational, and religious backgrounds. We conservatively estimate that at least 50 million Americans, or 20% of the population, have had one or more ADC experiences – and the actual numbers may be closer to double these figures!
We collected more than 3,300 firsthand accounts of ADCs from people who have been contacted by a deceased family member or friend. These are spontaneous and direct communications that may occur anytime and anywhere, but no third parties such as psychics, mediums, hypnotists, or devices of any kind are involved.
Based upon our research, the following are the twelve most frequent types of after-death communication people report having with their deceased loved ones:
Sensing A Presence: This is the most common form of contact. But many people discount these experiences, thinking, "Oh, I'm just imagining this." It's a distinct feeling that your loved one is nearby, even though he or she can't be seen or heard. Though most often felt during the days and weeks immediately after the death, you may sense his or her presence months and even years later.
Hearing A Voice: Some people state they hear an external voice, the same as when a living person is speaking to them. However, the majority of communications are by telepathy – you hear the voice of your relative or friend in your mind. When you have two-way communication, it is usually by telepathy. In fact, it's possible to have an entire conversation this way.
Feeling A Touch: You may feel your loved one touch you with his or her hand, or place an arm around your shoulders or back, for comfort and reassurance. You may feel a tap, a pat, a caress, a stroke, a kiss, or even a hug. These are all forms of affection, nurturing, and love.
Smelling A Fragrance: You may smell your relative's or friend's favorite cologne, after-shave lotion, or perfume. Other common aromas are: flowers (especially roses), bath powders, tobacco products, favorite foods, and his or her personal scent.
Visual Experiences: There are a wide variety of visual experiences, which we have divided into two broad categories: partial visual and full visual ADCs. Appearances range from "a transparent mist" to "absolutely solid" with many gradations in between. You may see only the head and shoulders of your relative or friend, or someone you love may make a full appearance to you, and you will see the entire body as well, which will appear completely solid. Some visual ADCs occur in the bedroom, next to or at the foot of the bed. Others may happen anywhere – indoors or outdoors – even in a car or aboard a plane. Typically he or she will be expressing love and well-being with a radiant smile. Loved ones virtually always appear healed and whole regardless of their cause of death. Verbal communication may take place, but not always.
Visions: You may see an image of a deceased loved one in a "picture" that is either two-dimensional and flat or three-dimensional like a hologram. It's like seeing a 35 mm slide or a movie suspended in the air. Visions are usually in radiant colors and may be seen externally with your eyes open or internally in your mind. Communication may occur, especially during meditation.
Twilight Experiences: These occur in the alpha state – as you're falling asleep, waking up, meditating, or praying. You may have any or all of the above types of experiences while you are in this state of consciousness.
ADC Experiences While Asleep: Sleep-state ADCs are much more vivid, intense, colorful, and real than dreams. They are very common. Both one-way and two-way communications are typical. You usually feel your loved one is with you in person – that you're having an actual visit together. These experiences are not jumbled, filled with symbols, or fragmented the way dreams are.
Sleep-state ADCs are similar to those that occur when you are wide awake. Your relative or friend can come to you more easily, however, when you are relaxed, open, and receptive, such as while you are in the alpha state or asleep.
Out-Of-Body ADCs: These may occur while you are asleep or in a meditative state. They are dramatic experiences during which you leave your body and often visit your loved one at the place or level where he or she exists. These are extremely vivid, intense, and real – some say, "more real than physical life." The environments usually contain beautiful flowers and butterflies, colorful bushes and trees, radiant lighting, and other lovely aspects of nature – and are filled with happiness, love, and joy.
Telephone Calls: These ADCs may occur during sleep or when you are wide awake. You will hear a phone ringing, and if you answer it, your loved one will give you a short message. Two-way conversations are possible. His or her voice will usually be clear but may seem far away. If you are awake, you will probably not hear a disconnect sound or a dial tone when the call is completed.
Physical Phenomena: People who are bereaved often report receiving a wide variety of physical signs from their deceased relative or friend, such as: lights or lamps blinking on and off; lights, radios, televisions, stereos, and mechanical objects being turned on; photographs, pictures, and various other items being turned over or moved; and a long list of "things that go bump in the night."
Symbolic ADCs: People frequently ask a Higher Power, the universe, or their deceased loved one for a sign that he or she still exists. Many receive such a sign, though it may take some time to arrive. Occasionally these signs are so subtle they may be missed, or they may be discounted as mere "coincidences." Common signs include: butterflies, rainbows, many species of birds and animals, flowers, and a variety of inanimate objects such as coins and pictures.
According to our research, the purpose of these visits and signs by those who have died is to offer comfort, reassurance, and hope to their parents, spouse, siblings, children, grandchildren, other family members, and friends. They want you to know they're still alive and that you'll be reunited with them when it's your time to leave this physical life on earth – and they'll be there to greet you when you make your transition. Their most frequent messages, expressed verbally or non-verbally, include:
"I'm okay ... I'm fine ... Everything is okay ... Don't worry about me ...
Don't grieve for me ... Please let me go ... I'm happy ... Everything will be all right ...
Go on with your life ... Please forgive ... Thank you ... I'll always be there for you ...
I'm watching over you ... I'll see you again ... I love you ... Good-bye ..."
You may be asked to give a message from your loved one to somebody else. We urge you to write down the message verbatim and to deliver it, if possible, because it may help the recipient far more than you realize.
Nearly all ADCs are positive, joyful, and uplifting encounters that reduce grief, provide lasting comfort and hope, and accelerate emotional and spiritual healing. We encourage you to trust your own experiences and to accept them as being real for you.
Unfortunately, some people react with fear when they have an ADC. This is usually because they are startled by the suddenness of the event, or they may have never heard of one happening to anybody else. Such people may assume they are "losing their mind and going crazy." And others find it difficult to reconcile after-death communications with their philosophical or religious beliefs.
Not all people are contacted by their deceased loved ones. We don't know for certain why some are and some aren't, but it seems that fear, anger, and prolonged heavy grief inhibit the possibility of having an ADC.
Based upon our research, we suggest the following: Ask for a sign that your relative or friend continues to exist. Pray for him or her and others who are affected by the death, including yourself. We recommend that you learn how to meditate, especially if you are currently bereaved or have unresolved grief. Meditation will enable you to relax and soften any fear or anger you may have. It will reduce your depression, improve your ability to eat and sleep, and facilitate your healing process. These deep relaxation exercises will also allow you to unfold your inner, intuitive senses. In fact, you may have an ADC experience while you are meditating.
Our research indicates that after-death communications are a natural and normal part of life. Therefore, we feel ADCs deserve the same public awareness and acceptance that near-death experiences (NDEs) have already received.
For most people, an after-death communication from a deceased family member or friend is valued as a sacred and profound experience that will be cherished for a lifetime. ADC experiences usually expand one's understanding of life and offer a deeper awareness of life after death. They consistently communicate an essential spiritual message: "Life and love are eternal."
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dream moon JO B
Jul 8, 2013
dream moon JO B
on a few of thes u wud thnk thr woz a ghost on it
Jul 8, 2013
dream moon JO B
wen i com bac home today i saw a fethr on th door step so i pickt up i dont no if irs a sine or any thng but th ohr day i gad a dream abot cowboys indinas chasin me my dad woz in th dream tell me wear to hid i woz hidng evry wear in my dream i woke up fealng weid i did i no my dad usd to watch a lot of old westen movies wi randof scott jon wayne so on i evn tok a few pics of th feathr i did
Jul 9, 2013
dream moon JO B
my dad usd to tak me wen i woz a kid maryln its full of ducks/swans pigen seaguls blac birds so on sisn yday i keap on lookng fo more feathrs on my door step i do its usly bean blaons popn in th grav yrd wear my dads ashs is burid its 1s iv evr got a fethr on th door stp
Jul 10, 2013
Maria
I gave all of my pictures to my son's girlfriend that she used for a picture board at the funeral. After the funeral she refused to give them back. Left with no memories of my son, a week after my son's funeral, I went into my bedroom to look for a tape recorder. I thought that I could record his friends favorite stories about my son. I had returned from overseas and my bedroom was rented out while I was away, so everything had been moved out twice. When I returned, I moved some clothes back in and a desk. I never got around to moving anything else in. So, I was looking for a tape recorder and had no idea where to look, so I was thinking and scanned the room. My eyes spotted a camera that I had never seen before on the empty desk. I tried it and had to put batteries in it. Then I looked at the pictures and it was 1000 pictures of my son from when I was gone overseas. No one else lives in my house or would go into my room. still I asked around and the gf said the camera was lost over a year ago. I prefer to think that God set up the circumstances for me to find it at that time and it was left to give me comfort.
Jul 10, 2013
Eliza
Jul 10, 2013
Melisa C
We always lived together with my Mom, until she passed this year. Years ago, she had lent me her debit card to withdraw some money, I was a teen so it was like an errand to run.
Some days later, we realized that I didn't know where I had put the card after that time when I went to the bank. We searched through our house, everywhere. It didn't turn out and we thought it was funny because it was a new card and we searched in every little place and it seemed to have vanished. Mom called to cancel the card and got a new one. I knew I hadn't really lost it in the street, so we were really curious about it and from time to time we asked each other jokingly if it had appeared.
Three years ago, we moved from that house to an apartment. I went through all my stuff and threw away a lot of things, gave away others, etc.
This year, Mom passed away. I was at the apartment alone one afternoon, crying and very sad. I had been looking at old photos and papers and letters that reminded me of Mom.
I found this envelope with some letters from my aunt and some notes that I wrote. I read some letters, and inside of one of the folded papers, there it was, the debit card. Brand new and it was so nice to see Mom's beautiful name in the shiny plastic. After all these years I found it and I know that if Mom was watching me then, she was laughing.
Jul 11, 2013
Maria
Marilyn, I do believe that was your son sending you a message. The Lord allows these things to give us comfort. Revel in his presence when he comes to visit. I always hope to feel or smell my son again and it only happens when I'm not crying and when I least expect it...so I can enjoy it! Isn't it a great comfort...
Jul 11, 2013
dream moon JO B
th fethr maryln i kept it its in my memry box of my dads thngs i say memry box is a old biskit tin its got his diarys a pa of his sox i no it mit sond silly a few coins his wallet so on im still lok for mor fethrs i am i hop brandan can send u gifts lik ths coz i can tell u rely lovd yore son lke he lovd u
Jul 11, 2013
dream moon JO B
im plesed our lovd 1s can send us gifts frm the othr sid maryln
tht fethr will stay w me for evr im still lookf for more if i get any i will post on hear
Jul 11, 2013
Violet R Schulert Endres
I was talking to dan tonight while I was walking toki, just finished writing it down.. was asking him ..in case you dont know I have been going to write out his wedding vows that he would have said if he hadnt been so sick on our wedding day..I asked him recently if that was ok and felt he said yes... well tonight I was up to trying while I was walking toki..I was talking to dan and asking him what he would want me to say....eventually alot of things came to mind important..that i wrote down just now but one thing hit me.. I felt him ..I felt a strong warm feeling surrounding my brain(werid spot but...).. what it said to me was how very much he loves me....
Jul 12, 2013
Violet R Schulert Endres
I feel my husband, Dan, and I still have a relationship. Before he died, I told him I was his forever. I meant even after death and I still feel that way. The longer he has been dead, the more I feel that we still communicate and have a relationship. The other night I was talking to him and I felt him love me! It was wild(startling but lovely) and very wonderful. I know God gave me a gift in Dan while he was physically alive in this world and now I really feel that He is continuing to give me the gift of Dan's pessencse in my life now that Dan is in the next. I am very grateful. I hope it last forever.
my evageliical side has a hard time with all this but..Im not that person completely anymore so I'm willing to accept this as possible. I pray it is. And, God ,I thankYou for it.
Jul 16, 2013
dream moon JO B
i woz worid abot ths bird th othr day it woz on my nbors wall coz it woz sitng thr for ages im pleased it got away in case my cat killed it or any orh cats killed it
evm on thes old victorn war gravs u wud thng thr is som thng abot ot jump out or som kind of spirt
evn still i had mor balllons popping
Jul 18, 2013
Maria
When my son died, the captain of his baseball team had a dream that my son woke him up to tell him that he would be at the game , but he would not be playing because he had broken his neck. Even though I did suspect he had broken his neck- Today, (6 weeks later) I heard from the Doctor that did my son's autopsy and she confirmed it. He said good bye to so many before he left.
He also saw my aunt when she was flying to Michigan. Just his head went to her face and he said, " hug Sheri for me and tell her I love her". That's his mate for 20 years. Sheri had left early and figured she'd see him at home- so she just left without hugging him. A big regret now for her, but he sent one anyways.
Jeff and I were to fix my fan, but then he died. I got the directions and some advise and went at it alone. While I was changing out the box, I would place each wire in place while making sure each caught by tugging on each. On my last wire I notice that 3 were out. My elbow was pushed and I started again. I finally realized that my son was playing games and started crying because I missed him. It stopped and I haven't seen him since.
I believe the Lord allows visions and such for comfort. If it doesn't comfort you...
I also wrote about an earlier vision that I had of him in heaven with his father. That gave me a lot of comfort.
Jul 23, 2013
Storyas Fawnfeather
Hi everyone. I haven't been on for a while. I just skimmed some of your comments, but I plan to go and read them in more detail in a moment and maybe respond individually. All I can say now is that when my Mom died, she came to me in dreams to give me messages like Maria's son did his coach. I was so worried about her, so she came to me to tell me she was feeling much better now - I think she wanted me to know that so I wouldn't worry, because she suffered a lot at the end. And, my Dad came to me by playing with electronics. He called me on the cell phone a LOT, although the longer he is gone the less it happens. And, he once even sent me an email. So, I believe all of you when you tell me these stories.
My good good friend at work, Don, who is like the brother I never had to me loaned me a book to read called "Journey of Souls, Case Studies of Life Between Lives", by Dr. Michael Newton, PH.D. He said he has four or five books out and that when I return this one, he will loan me the next one until I read them all. It has helped. It described sounds that the souls hear when they are passing through the first stages of the afterlife to get to their soul group of friends. It said it would sound like a wind tunnel and there would be the sound of wind chimes. That is what I used to hear when my dad called me on the phone. This book is helping me. I recommend it if anyone wants to read it
I have been talking to Jo (JB) on private messages, and she has been encouraging me to come back to the groups and talk. I think I'm just now ready to do that - thank you, JB, for your support. About six or nine months ago my husband got very sick (and he is not out of the woods yet but I think he can be okay instead of leaving me) and shortly before that my nephew got shot and died and then I'd had my dad die right before that and my Mom before him and several friends in the interim - and even though some of these deaths happened a while ago now and I should be getting over it, I got worse for a while instead of better. I got so depressed that I just couldn't come over here and talk about it. It was more than I could handle. Over this summer I've had a lot of yard work and repairs and house repairs to work on, because so many things I couldn't do when I was taking care of my Dad, because I was too busy (and I'm not complaining). I'm so depressed that when I get up to start them I'm actually angry that I have to do it when I don't feel like doing anything, and then after I start moving my body and start getting that exercise and start sweating, I start to feel better. Then, the next day, I feel angry again that I have to even do anything until the exercise starts to lift my mood. Yesterday I posted a bunch of pictures on Facebook of the yard work and realized how beautiful it is becoming and how lucky I am to have such a gift as a house, even if it's a small house and yard in a rough neighborhood - I'm so lucky to have it. And, I'm so lucky that God gave me the gift of being creative and putting flowers and wind chimes and things out in a creative way to make it so beautiful. And, I thought - I am so blessed - why am I so sad and angry? I should be enjoying this. And, I guess that snapped me out of it enough that I decided to come back to the groups today. Sorry for bringing everyone down with my depression. Thanks for listening.
Jul 27, 2013
Storyas Fawnfeather
Marilyn - I agree with you - why would some evil entity want to reassure us? What possible purpose would that serve for them? Even if they were trying to trick us like my old church used to say, it would work against them, because that trick would bring us closer to God out of our gratitude for knowing our loved one is alright and out of our desire to be in a positive place with them after we die. So, it would do no good purpose at all for an evil entity to try to trick us into believing we are in contact with our loved one when we are not. It must be our loved ones - especially since this happens to so many people and has throughout history.
Jo B - is that graveyard picture where your dear Daddy is buried? It looks like a lovely and peaceful place. I love all of your pictures. You are such a good photographer. I am glad to hear the balloons are still popping. That has to be a sign from your Daddy. It has happened far too many times now for it to be anything else.
I've read everyone else's recent messages, and all I can say is that I believe every one of you and believe it is your family members reaching out to you to let you know they are okay. And, I am very sorry that you are all grieving so much. It is a pain like no other pain you can imagine, and you can't even imagine it until you feel it yourself. My love and prayers to all of you.
Jul 27, 2013
l
I do believe in the eternal spirit and eternal love. We suddenly lost our father in May due to a cardiac arrest. He was very healthy and full of life so this was a sudden shock. A few weeks after his death, a parrot came and sat on our patio ledge for about two minutes. We tried to feed it and it flew away. It was strange because we have not had a parrot come. A lot of pigeons come always. It felt good and connected with my father on that day. My nephews were visiting after my father passing away now and my 10 year old nephew who was very close to my father said he saw grandpa and he wanted to touch him to see if he was real. I told him you saw grandpa because you love grandpa and grandpa loves you. People say you dream of departed loved ones. I never dreamt about my father. A few days back I dreamt that he was sitting with us. I knew he has passed away and in my dream I started crying and told my mother that he was there. Then suddenly he disappeared. I do believe that he will always be with us
Aug 4, 2013
Amber Dunnett
I believe this to be very true, I'm 32 years old and have had this trait as I call it since many of my family members have the same trait. I personally, can hear, talk, and see people who have passed but, I can't always make out who they are. Nor can I talk to my boyfriend who I share a daughter with. However, she can and she's 5years old. Sometimes I get emotionally tired I just have to ask them to give me a break. Usually, it's not a problem but sometimes they have messages they want me to share as soon as possible.
Aug 7, 2013
Kristin Renee
I can't imagine how frustrating and emotionally draining it would be to encounter those who have passed over on a regular basis. But on the flip side, how very gratifying it must be for you to be able to share the important messages they have. Being able to offer the gift of peace of mind is priceless. I hope your daughter is able to keep her connection with her father and I am sorry for your loss, Amber.
Aug 7, 2013
dream moon JO B
lst wk wen i saw a ranbow out sd i saw my dad looking ot of a windor i evn saed dad wot r u dong hear is tht u
iv tryd to tell a few ple byt thy dnt bleve me i dnt thng only 1 wud bleve my wud be my sister law but shes away for a few wks
coz shes lk me dreams stuff its hrd to bleve i thngs its why i did dreams on hear
Aug 7, 2013
Eliza
Aug 11, 2013
joy bell
I've been contacted many time in the last few months and it is just too much to be coincidences. Every time I ask for a specific thing, I get the answer.
Aug 15, 2013
Violet R Schulert Endres
I hear from My husbandso much I feel like we are still in contact still in a relatioshio.. we are..were still married...I love you Dan.
Aug 16, 2013
joy bell
Violet, can you tell me how you hear from him. I keep praying that I could dream of Dave, but I've only dreamed of him twice and I didn't really see him in my dream.
Aug 16, 2013
Connie K
I have had several signs and communications with my son since he passed 8 1/2 months ago. I have always had psychic experiences my whole life as did my son Daniel. I know from my own experience that spirit lives on. Sometimes when I am in so much despair I call him to please let me know he is there, and he answers. It's hard to explain. I just immediately hear him answer. I try to mediate everyday because this silence will bring you closer to spirit. I have a white butterfly that flies around my head everyday also. Just a little gift, a sign, that life is good and he is still here with me. But it is hard to enjoy when I am in so much pain. But just keep believing and you will be able to be open enough to see the signs and hear the answers. Also I have an excellent medium and have received many messages through her. She helps me deal with the grief also by giving me counsel, meditation and relaxation techniques. It is our best tool to be able to open to Spirit and our loved ones. Have a good weekend everyone. You are all in my prayers. ((( )))
Aug 17, 2013
dream moon JO B
me 2 connie im a bit sycik i sea thngs in dreams t i wnt in to a shop a few wks a go connie i saw my dads sprit siting on 1 of seats i tell pele on hear coz thy will hav had simler xsprenses i it ry tell som of t family thy alredy thng im bonkers as it is
i no wen i saw my dads sprit sitong on t seat in t shop pepel in ths shop must of tht i woz som mad woman staring in to spase or day dreamng
jo
Aug 17, 2013
joy bell
I prayed last night and dreamed of Dave. In my dream, I was consoling someone that was crying and grieving over their loved one and Dave was watching and I could feel his admiration. I love him so much!
Aug 18, 2013
Connie K
I know Marilyn. I just want signs everyday.I just want him back.
Aug 19, 2013
Violet R Schulert Endres
dan and I were talkinjg a miniut ago....it felt good.....his birthday is next mothn first since he went to Heaven. Im having a get together,,... same food he would like , with a cake and candles.. fells right to me.
Aug 20, 2013
joy bell
Violet, That sounds really nice! Dave and I used to go to Wildwood NJ. He loved it there, so when my daughter went this year, I had her bring me sand from the beach and I took it to the cemetery for Dave.
Aug 21, 2013
joy bell
You know I hate to tell myself things that may not be true, just to make myself feel better, so I started studying what the scriptures say about death, and the more I do, the more I believe Dave knows what's going on down here and can communicate.
Aug 21, 2013
joy bell
Hi Marilyn,
I haven't watched tv. since Dave passed away. I just called to get Comcast turned off. I don't even put it on anymore. I can't listen to music in my car either..... I just cry! I'm going to get those scriptures together for you. I am off next week for vacation. Dave and I had planned on going to Wildwood NJ. We loved it there. Now I don't know what I'll do, maybe clean my house.
Aug 22, 2013
Connie K
Mariolyn
I have gotten calls from the 000000 number. It's weird but I didn't really think of it as being from my son. It has happened 3 times to me in the last several months.
Aug 22, 2013
Violet R Schulert Endres
joy bell , can you tell me what verses tell you that our loved ones know whats going on here..I mean I believe but..i have so many questions.. vand nobody has answers
Aug 22, 2013
dream moon JO B
i no tday my woz watchn tv it jumpt on 2 t hors rasing chanell u wud thnk it woz my dad coz he usd to bet on horsess he usde 2
fones maryline our fons bean off sisne monday fixng it out sd wish i got blame 4 it till we fond out why
thy putng up new fone masts it keast now i no its not my falt
famuly or me a lot of sorys th do now
it lest t intentet conct is on a difrtn box wish i saved up hrd 4 it
Aug 24, 2013
joy bell
Well today, I went to a crab feast with Dave's sister. She misses him so much too! I didn't want to sit at home, so I went to the mall afterwards and ended up crying in Sears, left there, and went to Home Depot....was able to buy the light bulbs I needed, but cried on the way home. I still can't believe Dave is gone! If it weren't for these verses and believing that I would see him again one day...... I would go crazy! Violet, these are only a few and some people argue about the meaning of them, but I believe that they tell us that they can see us and that we will be with them again one day. ( HEBREWS 12: verses 1,2) (LUKE 15:verse 10) (II SAMUEL 12: verses 22,23) (MARK 9: verses 2-10) and (LUKE 16:19-31) Go into Google put can our loved ones see us from heaven according to the bible.
Aug 24, 2013
l
I have not posted anything for the past few weeks. Its four months since my father passed away. Three days back I had a dream I was in an airplane with some friends then suddenly I saw my father walk in front of me. He was walking towards the seat in the aisle behind us. He did not see me but I saw him and ran to him. By the time I reached him he was already sitting in his seat and I went near him and started crying. In my dream I knew he had passed away but I was so excited to see him. Seeing me cry it is almost like he put his hand over my head but at that moment I woke up. In my dream my father looked well but he did not talk and I was not sure if he recognized me. When I woke up the feeling was as if my father had not passed away and when I woke up I remembered he had passed away. I don't know what to make of this. Please let me know. I want my father to be happy and peaceful. I believe in the eternal spirit.
Aug 30, 2013
dream moon JO B
wn me mum wear ot t d watng 4 a bus i crt ths brd all otr brds leftt it
Aug 31, 2013
Eliza
Have had more signs from Mom. The other day I was on a bike ride. I stopped for lunch and was thinking how much I missed her and how she would love the area where I was having lunch. I said, "I miss you, mom. I hope you can see this beautiful area." At that moment, three blue jays landed on a branch near me. They sat for a bit and then flew off. Blue jays were one of her favorite birds. The other day, I was having a down day, and I said, out loud, "mom, I miss you so much. Give me a sign if you can hear me." Not a minute later, one of our favorite songs came on the radio. I also felt her presence at that moment. I think it was her.
Sep 5, 2013
Eliza
Have had more signs from Mom. The other day I was on a bike ride. I stopped for lunch and was thinking how much I missed her and how she would love the area where I was having lunch. I said, "I miss you, mom. I hope you can see this beautiful area." At that moment, three blue jays landed on a branch near me. They sat for a bit and then flew off. Blue jays were one of her favorite birds. The other day, I was having a down day, and I said, out loud, "mom, I miss you so much. Give me a sign if you can hear me." Not a minute later, one of our favorite songs came on the radio. I also felt her presence at that moment. I think it was her.
Sep 5, 2013
joy bell
Eliza,
That is amazing! My boyfriend's daughter told me to get the book."Hello From Heaven." It is about people's encounters with their loved ones, that have passed on. This book is Wonderful. I love it so far!
Sep 5, 2013
Michelle H
Ditto on the recommendation of the book Hello From Heaven. It is fantastic, very hopeful and comforting!
Sep 5, 2013
Melissa D
Please share any good books to read. My daughter received one from a friend at work. It is titled 90 Minutes in Heaven by Don Piper. I think it was a sign for this book to come my way. Once I stated reading it I didn't want to put it down. I truly believe the statement Don talks about in his book are real. My mother, myself and my daughter have had contacts with people that have passed over. My daughter sent me a text of a dream she had about her father talking to her. Note...my daughter has not read the book and this is not my daughter that received the book. At first I wanted to cry and then I was laughing because it was the exact thing Don talked about in his book. My husband made a comment and it was something he would say so I know it was him. Sometimes I feel like I am weird or crazy. I limit who I talk to about my experiences. Sometimes I just know things. Anyone have ideas of how I can develop my contact with others that have passed. I can't say how things happen now, I don't think I do anything special. I was driving in my car on my way home and I saw my friends dad who had passed a month before my husband. He smiled and told me to tell my friend he was okay and proud of her. It took my two weeks to tell my friend. First I didn't want her to think I was crazy. She ended up telling her mom (who is having a hard time) and her brother. They were all excited and wanted to know more. I felt great giving some comfort I wish I could help more. Please help...
Sep 6, 2013
dream moon JO B
i dnt no if ths is a sine or any thng but i got all tehse brds
Sep 9, 2013
dream moon JO B
Sep 9, 2013
dream moon JO B
Sep 9, 2013
dream moon JO B
Sep 9, 2013
dream moon JO B
Sep 9, 2013
dream moon JO B
Sep 9, 2013
dream moon JO B
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Sep 9, 2013