Dear Violet:

I just read your post. So sorry about your loss.

All that you are receiving from your beloved comes from God, pay no attention if they tell you otherwise. 

You might want to read "Journey of Souls" it helped me.

God bless you, and give you strength

Martha

Hello,

my name is Laurie and I read your post on the diagnosis of your terminal illness. Words are so inadequate at times but I was saddened as I read your story. I have a link to a blog on grief that has many links on it about terminal illness...I believe your local hospice center may have on site meetings for terminally ill...it probably depends on the community how good the group would be.

http://www.griefhealingblog.com/search/label/terminal%20illness

I also thought this book was rather good

http://www.amazon.com/Final-Gifts-Understanding-Awareness-Communica...

I just thought I would put out a response...after losing two sons, it does shift one's perspective on life and death.

Prayers for comfort.

Laurie

I John 1:5 God is light; in Him there is no darkness at all.

One more book I would recommend is Crossing the Threshold of Eternity by Robert Wise

http://www.amazon.com/Crossing-Threshold-Eternity-Dying-Living/dp/0...