The 4th of July was so much harder than Mother's Day. I think I am starting to believe she is really gone. When did it feel "real" to you? Struggling very hard today. Sandy

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Hi,

My Name is Julie and I started this group shortly after my mom died.  For me it is still hard to believe she is gone from my eyes forever, next month will be 2 years and I feel people dont get how much my heart aches for her. I could tell her anything she was my best friend and I loved her so much.  I could never picture her gone, after losing my dad in 2005 it just does not seem fair but who says life is fair?

 

For me somedays it hits me bamm she is truely gone. Somedays i get angry with myself because i was so calm when i found her, when i called the paramedics, when they picked her up i guess i was in shock. I used to love summers now I hate them.

It must have been shock because the same thing happened to me. When the doctor said unsurvivable brain damage. I didn't say a word or cry or scream. I just sat down very calmly and thought that's it my baby's dead. I hate the summer now too.

 

Sandy

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