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Permalink Reply by Steve Suehiro on March 21, 2015 at 11:19am

I am so sorry for your loss- although most of us here have lost someone we love and therefore can relate to your loss, since everyone's loss and pain is a distinctly personal and individual experience no one here can say that we know exactly how you feel.  

I lost my young wife who passed away unexpectedly a little over seven months ago at the age of 36 sometime after I left for work on August 8, 2014.  She was the center of my universe and I was still madly in love with her after 16 years of happy marriage.  Needless to say it was a dark time for me and continues to be difficult even now.  I am not certain how I made it through those first very difficult hours and days after she died, but somehow I did.  

 

I have no doubt that you are in a lot of pain right now, and I wish I had some sort of wise words or magical spell that would make things easier for you.  All I can say is that I could not imagine that I could ever live without my wife and did not think that I would ever find my way out of the darkness, but here I am - still miss her but I am doing my best to live as well as I can in her honor. 

 

Keep reaching out just like you are doing, and lean on family and friends for moral support.  Please don't give up.  And the good folks here will also do what they can to help out as well.

 

Permalink Reply by Lost & Alone on March 22, 2015 at 12:25am

Sorry to hear of your loss.. every one here will support you any way we can, we all share a love that we lost and we have found each other for a different kind of support you can not find any were else...

Hughs to you

Hope that you will talk freely here we can see and understand things that others who have not lost someone can''t

God bless you