Missing my Son or Daughter

Information

Missing my Son  or  Daughter

For all of us that are suffering the loss a son or daughter.

Members: 452
Latest Activity: Feb 24

Discussion Forum

Please share your Story = the Loss of your Son or Daughter 467 Replies

Started by Kar. Last reply by Julie McKinney Jan 17, 2022.

STUPID things people say... " Vent Here " 182 Replies

Started by Kar. Last reply by Robert Matthews Mar 11, 2018.

Do you ever feel like your pain from the sadness of losing your child, only intensifies as times goes by? 163 Replies

Started by Karen R.. Last reply by Jacqueline Miller-Gartner Mar 17, 2022.

Lost Faith 58 Replies

Started by cindy parrott. Last reply by Dennis C. Jun 27, 2015.

The HOW ARE YOU dreaded Question ???? How do you answer??? 49 Replies

Started by Kar. Last reply by Robert Matthews Mar 11, 2018.

Comment Wall

Comment

You need to be a member of Missing my Son or Daughter to add comments!

Comment by Kar on January 19, 2010 at 6:26pm
Checking in on everyone- Hope your having a strong day- !!! Wish I had some great advise - But, I too just hurt so so so so bad - life is so very hard without my son. Sending love to all of you who understand this pain as well (( HUG ))
Comment by Gail Richardson on December 23, 2009 at 5:04pm
Sending love and strength to us all at this time of year - please know that you are all in my heart and I'm sending hugs and healing light to help us get through these days in one piece. Thank you all for your words of comfort and guidance - what would I do without you all??? xx

Comment by Kar on December 23, 2009 at 4:37pm
Love & Strength to all of you at a time of year that holds so many treasured memories of years past & so much pain since losing our children. Love to you all !!!
Comment by Katherine Ellis on December 18, 2009 at 3:09am
It's 2 am and I should be going to bed. It has been such a bad day today I just don't think I can sleep nor do I want to close my eyes. I was handling Christmas pretty well, just trying to concentrate on our two grand-daughters, 3 and 6. But it really hit me today that again this year a place will be empty. The lau...ghter less. The joy gone. I thought I was stonger but then a day like this sneaks in and I find I"m at the bottom looking up. It was a shock the way it hit me.To top this off I used the wrong debt card and now have over $150.00 in overdrafts to pay. Someone forgot to put the meat in the freezer when I got home from the store, it sat out all night out, I don't know how to tell if it's good or not. That's another $175.00. Medical bills are piling up from my husband's cancer. No money to buy the children gifts. How do you tell them Santa is broke?? I've kept it positive but tonight it just crashed in on me. I can't see a Miracle coming anytime soon. Life just doesn't seem to give us a break. I am thankful for what we have, but angery for what is not. Ashamed for feeling like this. Are we all being tested somehow? Why? When does life let up? Thank you all for letting me sound off here. I didn't know where else to turn........
Comment by Gail Richardson on December 18, 2009 at 2:11am
Karen - adding my prayers too. They can do some absolutely wonderful things these days so don't give up hope. Please wish him well Karen and let us know how it goes. Hugs x
Comment by Laura Villarreal on December 17, 2009 at 5:30pm
Oh Karen, I am so sorry! I will say special prayers for a speedy recovery. I know a little about PAs and I don't think this will keep him from continuing on his path to being a PA.
Keep us posted.
Take care.
Comment by Kar on December 17, 2009 at 5:01pm
Damn Damn Damn - ! ! ! The only son I have left all but cut some fingers off last night. Time will tell if they were saved & if he has use of them. He is in college to be a physican assistant & hoped to work with orthopedic surgery. He may have lost that tonight too. It was his right hand & yes he is right handed. AHHHHHH !!!!!! A hand surgeon/plastic surgeon did surgey in the ER, saw blade destroyed a knuckle in the middle & pointer finger as well as nerves & tendons. No pins because the bones were splintered. they tried to sew them together.
time will tell...
Comment by Gail Richardson on December 17, 2009 at 2:47pm
I know how you feel Karen - I truly hate this time of year too. And it seems to go on forever doesn't it? I'm doing the very least I can get away with again - no decorations yet, I have to put up a tree for my foster daughter's sake but will leave it till the very last minute. I ordered all my gifts on-line to avoid the Christmas shopping experience that I can well do without! Just hang in there hun, it'll soon be over. And we're all here for one another when it all gets too much. Hugs xxxxx
Comment by Kar on December 15, 2009 at 5:15pm
Will be a relief when the holidays are over !!! All the lights, carols, etc.... make me sort of angry !!! Then people say Happy Holidays or Merry Christmas , & all the )O&(&(&(*. Kill me now - pleaseeeeeeeeee.
Comment by Katherine Ellis on December 8, 2009 at 5:25pm
"That" time of year is upon us. The big holiday. It's so hard to put up the tree, go shopping, bake the cookies and be happy. When what we really want is just to crawl in bed and hide until it's over. I pray for all of us that we find the strenght to get though it and find a moment of peace. God Bless you.
 

Members (452)

 
 
 

Latest Activity

Ellen Connolly is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Apr 28
Darnell Copeland is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Apr 8
Ravyn is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Mar 31
Rosa Guzmán updated their profile
Mar 24
Rosa Guzmán posted a discussion

Grandma sewing room

So I am almost done with cleaning my grandmas sewing room that wasn’t touched in 10 years because of all the mess, but now that she passed away 2 days ago, I don’t know if I should continue, I wanna finish what I started but I don’t know what to do, my grandpa is still alive and I don’t want to leave this burden on him.See More
Mar 24
John doe updated their profile
Mar 10
Pnina joined Jessica Granantowski's group
Thumbnail

Sole Survivors

For those who are the last surviving members of their immediate family.See More
Mar 9
Profile IconPnina and Manijeh Vafa Homann joined Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Mar 9

© 2026   Created by Ninja.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service