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Comment by Gail Richardson on January 28, 2010 at 4:28pm

Hi Trudy and welcome to the group no-one wants to belong to. Firstly let me say how sorry I am for your losses - I cannot imagine the pain of losing two children, life deals us some cruel blows. I'm also sorry for the loss of your husband and your pet - I know that animals are sometimes a very strong link to those we have lost and that their loss can bring back so much of the pain we thought was dealt with. Don't feel selfish for feeling sorry for yourself - my goodness, if we didn't.. who would?? We've been through hell and back and we entitled to feel bad sometimes. Time eases the pain but very now and again it all comes rushing back doesn't it. Katherine is right in saying what a nice group this is - so please feel comfortable to write in and have a rant and rave whenever you need to. We understand your pain and there are no fingers pointed here, February is going to be such a hard month for you - please know that we'll keep you in our hearts and prayers - you're not alone. Take care xx

Comment by Trudy F. Evans on January 28, 2010 at 2:48pm

Thank you so much Katherine. Your kind words are appreciated. It has been 21 yrs. since my son committed suicide and 10 since my other son was murdered and 9 since my husband died. I lost our beloved pet in December and am now totally alone. She was 14-1/2 yrs. old and like the end of having anyone with me. Feel so selfish for feeling sorry for myself but I do. I've had counseling of several years and have tried everything. It just seems to get harder. Feb. 2nd my younger son was found murdered that morning. Feb. 8th my eldest son commited suicide and his birthday is Feb. 6th. This is a big load for anyone to handle so there haven't been many conversations with friends. I like your cowboy hat Katherine.

Comment by Katherine Ellis on January 27, 2010 at 10:43pm

Trudy I am so sorry to hear that you have so many losses to deal with. What pain you must be feeling. How long ago did your sons die? Your husband? With so much grief to deal with, I doubt you will ever be able to tell who your heart is breaking for. I'm glad you found this group, it's a wonderful place to just let your feelings out. You have an awful hard week or so ahead of you. Know that there are many of us out here that are grieving with you and know a little of what your going through. I'll keep you in my prayers and thoughts. (((((((hugs))))))))

Comment by Trudy F. Evans on January 27, 2010 at 9:32pm

Just joined your group and am feeling much pain right now. Have lost two sons - one from a suicide and the other a murder. The anniversary is coming up for both of their deaths the first week of Feb. and I start feeling the anxiety. They were both adults when they died. Also lost my husband as well and do sometimes wonder who I miss more and who am I grieving for. I'm here to support all of you but right now it hurts. Thank you so much.

Comment by Gail Richardson on January 27, 2010 at 4:51pm

Karen - oh I'm so sorry, I had no idea and wish there was some way of posting those dates so we could make an effort to be there for you!
When you are struggling is the best time to be here - share some of the pain with others that know what you're dealing with.
Sending belated birthday wishes for your wonderful son and a cyber hug or three for you. Please don't feel that you can't post at times like this. Message me off group anytime Karen - please!
Hugs xxx

Comment by Kar on January 27, 2010 at 3:16pm

Checking in-----
Brad would have been 19 yesterday----
Thinking of you all....... I have been really struggling & haven't felt as though I would be much good to anyone here- but- My heart breaks for you all as we suffer the loss of our children.
Love & Strength to you all !!!!!!!
((( HUGS )))

Comment by Sherry Bell on January 26, 2010 at 11:43am

hi group,It has been awhile since my last entry. I have been dealing with alot. me n my brother got n an argument as did me and my husband and both always wanna say something about my angle. why do people do that? I miss my katelyne everyday. I got her a teddybear n chocklates ND little more stuff for valintines day i miss her so much its unreal. Never in a million years did i ever imagen something like this whould ever happen. i am careful we make sure seat belts are on. There is just so much i do not understand. now my X is trying to sue me and he was never in her life becouse he use to hit me so i left. he thought if i wasnt with him he didnt have a kid either. No all of the sudden hes running around saying i killed my baby i wasnt driving and no charges we brought on my mom not even a ticket. i pray for forgivness for the hate i feal tords him

Comment by Allan on January 24, 2010 at 8:22pm

Dear Grief Support group,
It has been several weeks since I last wrote an entry. I want to let everyone know that I am still part of the group and want to stay involved. The xmas holidays were predictably stressful but staying busy helped. Following the holidays my wife and I took some time off for our anniversary. Last week I went with a mission group to central america for a week. Staying busy helps but I still dont do well at nights. February 2 brings the first anniversary of my daughter's death. Since this will be a major time for me I will be checking in. No need to comment for now, I just wanted to let you all know I am still involved and value your input very much. Peace to all of you. Allan

Comment by Gail Richardson on January 21, 2010 at 2:19pm

then hugs it is:

Comment by Laura Villarreal on January 20, 2010 at 9:32am

Karen, thanks for checking in on us...it's been okay but right now I feel an anxiety attack coming on. Deep breaths...good thoughts. I can do the deep breaths I just can't conjure up "good" thoughts during this time. I really appreciate the virtual hugs...they ease the hurt just a bit and I'll take what I can get at this time!

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