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Missing my Son  or  Daughter

For all of us that are suffering the loss a son or daughter.

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Comment by Lorraine on December 18, 2011 at 8:31am

My thoughts are with friends here.  I know the holidays can be especially difficult with those around us making merry & bright while we can't wait for them to be over.  I went to the mall with my daughter and her baby last night; the first time in four years.  The last time I went was with my son, who had just found out that his cancer had progressed.  We had spent several days in the hospital, and he insisted on signing himself out.  It was, after all, Christmas.  That year he bought his big sister a collection of books they had read as children; his middle sister he built a computer for even as he could hardly bear to sit on the floor to assemble it; and his little sister, who although she was in her early twenties was "his baby" a sterling silver necklace with the "evil eye" to protect her.  God I miss my funny beautiful son.  Life is much less magical without him here :-(  

Comment by I love lillies of the valley on December 18, 2011 at 2:31am

Adrianne, I am praying for you RIGHT NOW.  You are not alone.  Tell me about your son--if that's ok with you.  I'm listening.  Linda V.

1-800-273-8255 National Suicide Prevention Hotline. 

Comment by Adrianne Edgerly on December 17, 2011 at 9:17pm
Really tough day. I miss my son. This is a nightmare.
Comment by Maureen Mason on December 17, 2011 at 2:03am

Yes, its sadly true. Her obit:

LaBONTE, Sandy age 47, of Spring Hill, passed away on Dec. 12, 2011. Her entire family will miss her every day and she will forever remain in our hearts. Sandy was predeceased by her beloved daughter, Kasey Castleberry. She is survived by her husband, Harold Buster Barker, of Spring Hill; step daughter, Jennifer Barker, Spring Hill; step son, Jason Barker, Spring Hill; parents James & Ingrid LaBonte, St. Petersburg; siblings Linda & Jeff VanOosting, St. Petersburg, Kathy & Donald Klase, St. Petersburg, Jennifer & Robert Cutting, St. Petersburg, James LaBonte, Spring Hill; nieces and nephews, Emily, Michael & Amber VanOosting, St. Petersburg, Brandon Klase, St. Petersburg, Brad & Travis Cutting, St. Petersburg, Kevin, Marcus & Ryan LaBonte, Spring Hill; great-nephew Brayden LaBonte. Calling hours are to be held Friday, Dec. 16, 1-2 pm with Service at 2 pm at Brewer and Sons, 280 Mariner Blvd., Spring Hill, 352-688-4991.

Here is the funeral home website link if you wish to leave condolences:

http://hosting-24664.tributes.com/show/Sandy-LaBonte-92939731

Comment by Lorraine on December 16, 2011 at 9:02pm

so sad, this really hit me hard.  We are all so vulnerable after losing our beloved children...

Comment by Karen R. on December 15, 2011 at 9:43pm

Oh wow, I just read Sandy's profile on her page........to my dismay, it's true! We all have to continue to be there for each other as best as we can.

Comment by Karen R. on December 15, 2011 at 9:21pm

Oh ny goodness Lorraine! I just read your comment about Sandra LaBonte! I don't know how I missed your comment. This is horrible!! Has this info been confirmed?  If it has, when did this occur? Oh how I hope it's not true! God knows that I have been there my self but I decided not to do it because I didn't want my children to experience any more pain.........especially my youngest. I know what she was feeling. This just awful.  Sending hugs to all.

Comment by Grace on December 15, 2011 at 1:28pm

Here is a nice song.... For all of us that may be feeling like Sandra...... you can count on God to Not Let Go..... or if you are struggling with your faith...... WE  ON THIS GROUP "Won't Let Go"  Because we have all felt like this song.... we just got to know we can make it and We Won't Let Go!

 http://youtu.be/Af8mB9ABuJA

Comment by Kar on December 15, 2011 at 11:43am

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oj__acFbsyk

Miss you sooooo much Brad- I dedicate this to You my precious son & to all of your precious children & you as well my dear aching friends..... xoxoxo

Comment by Karen R. on December 13, 2011 at 10:10pm

Lisa and Grace, what a wonderful idea/tribute to your children. I think that is beautiful. A friend of mine helped organize a toy event in honor of my son. We collected toys to distribute to children in the Pediatric Unit in the same hospital where my son was. My 21 yr old son had been in the adult ICU but he will always be my "baby".  We will be giving out the toys right before the holidays because alot of them won't be able to go home for Christmas or Hannukah or Eid(Islamic Holiday).        Many hugs to all

 

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