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Comment by Dick on February 13, 2012 at 10:13pm

My mother wants me to go to a grief counselor. I have already been to one and it was no help. I don't want drugs either, I gave up drinking. Because, when I come down or sober up; my son is still gone. So I just want to meet his grief head on and deal with it. My grief is very much guilt driven, i know that much. I don't need someone to tell me and then have a grief counselor tell me its not. Not helpful.

Comment by Karen R. on February 13, 2012 at 3:45pm

Hey Adrianne, I probably would not not be able to visit as often as I do if it was so far away. I know that some people never want to return there again. I still read my son's name on his monument in total disbelief.

Many hugs!

Comment by Karen R. on February 13, 2012 at 3:29pm

Hey Dick, I hope you begin to feel physically ok soon. Grief can be very harmful to our health, I am paying the price right now.

Many hugs to you.

Comment by Dick on February 13, 2012 at 2:41pm

I feel like a Mack truck ran over me today, sick.

Comment by Dick on February 13, 2012 at 2:36pm

I just posted a bunch of pictures of Danny and family if anyone is interested.

Comment by Stephanie on February 13, 2012 at 2:34pm

it DEFINITELY does Dick, it really does. you cant believe the things that have happened to my state of health since my baby girl passed on...

Comment by Dick on February 13, 2012 at 1:55pm

I am really sick, I just thought it was in my head. Apparently, grief does a number on your immune system.

Comment by Robin Jone on February 13, 2012 at 6:51am

My heart aches for all of who have lost one of our very special loves, be it a son or a daughter. This past week I have cried so many tears, I couldn't figure out why it was hitting me so hard again. Then silly me, I realized Valentines Day (I always get all my kids candy on Valentines Day), my granddaughters 6 birthday is on the 15th (she loved her Uncle Zach) and my oldest daughter's birthday is on the 18th. All of these special days, Zach would have been there, smiling from ear to ear. Sneaking eating his girlfriend's candy, even though I would have bought him the same thing. How I wish I could turn back the clock, give my beautiful son a big hug and kiss, tell him how much I love him and am proud of him. I'm so very sorry for all us Moms and Dads on hear whose hearts are breaking. Big hugs. Robin

Comment by Stephanie on February 13, 2012 at 5:26am

dearest Karen, you did right, you did so right by him, i promise you that... what an amazing thing he could have given - life. i'm going to answer you more properly - just right now i am going thru one of those times - the agonizing days when you cant function. i bring up all the time, cant keep anything down, i get physically sick with the grief. but it will pass and i so want to write you. all my love, steph xxx

Comment by Adrianne Edgerly on February 13, 2012 at 2:48am

Karen
My heart aches for you. I try to go as often as I can. The cemetery is an hour and a half away. I know he's not there. But I think he hears me there for some reason. So I talk to him. I pray for him. And I ask for forgiveness. Because I should have been able to do better as his mother. This is a difficult week for me. Don was born on Valentines day. We will never be who we were. None of us. It is so painful.

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