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Comment by Dick on July 9, 2012 at 1:25pm

First Council of Nicaea ruled out reincarnation; which I am struggling with. It just seems the perfect method of educating our consciousness. Unfortunately, it seems we do not remember our previous life...maybe snippets; Deja Vu, odd dreams, innate knowledge. Danny, where ever you are I still love you, I hope you know this.

Comment by Dick on July 9, 2012 at 1:19pm

I am sure that there is consciousness after we leave this life. Otherwise, what would be motivating us now? Our brain is just a mass of cells and there is something more, a consciousness. This is what leaves our physical body.

Now being a Christian, I am taught of a Heaven and a Hell as a afterlife. The more I read theology and history, these seem to be constructs of man. I cannot see our creator, of which we are all one consciousness since he made us, wanting to torture us/himself. He wants us to come to him and honour him as we should each other. Therefore, I feel we will all be with him at the end.

Comment by lynne thompson on July 9, 2012 at 10:18am

I have never dreamed of my son either, I wish so badly he would tell me he is ok

Comment by Adrianne Edgerly on July 9, 2012 at 12:34am

Me too. I want my son to tell me he's ok. That there is an afterlife. More than a dream.

Comment by Dick on July 8, 2012 at 9:41pm

I have had some odd dreams about having a daughter. I don't have a daughter!

Unfortunately, I have not seen my son in a dream. I can lay on his bench in the garden and daydream about him whilst watching the clouds; but I can not dream about him at night. I want to so bad. 

Comment by Dick on July 8, 2012 at 9:31pm

I thought it maybe my son trying to contact me in a dream but I am fearful?

Comment by Ammy on July 8, 2012 at 6:49pm

Dick, just doing a quick search of interpretations and came up with:

Knock: Dreaming of someone knocking is a metaphor of chances and opportunities that are knocking at your door. On the other hand it could mean that you need someone to offer help to you. A knocker is also a bad prophecy which symbolizes death and a fearful future.

If you are hearing knocking then your unconscious wants to warn you or inform you of some part of you or your life. You might be knocking someone, offending them, and the dream is telling you to stop.

To dream that the door is closed or locked signifies opportunities that are denied and not available to you or that you have missed out on. Something or someone is blocking your progress. It also symbolizes the ending of a phase or project. In particular, if you are outside the locked door, then it suggests that you have anti-social tendencies. If you are inside the locked door, then it represents harsh lessons that need to be learned.

To dream that you are locking the door suggests that you are closing yourself off from others. You are hesitant in letting others in and revealing your feelings. It is indicative of some fear and low self-worth. If someone slams the door in your face, then it indicates that you are feeling shut out or some activity or that you are being ignored.

Don't know if any of this relates to you, but hope it helps.

{{{Hugs}}} to all.

Comment by Dick on July 8, 2012 at 5:55pm

I had a dream of someone knocking on my front door. I could hear the voice to let them in; but in the dream I did not open the door. I keep thinking about this. Anybody good with dreams? What does this mean? I usually don't dream or remember dreams.

Comment by Ammy on July 5, 2012 at 12:09pm

Oh boy, do I hear you all.  Hugs, hugs, & hugs!

I think most of us now know that this is our life now.  We need to find something to help us through each day.  I am doing better, but don't know for how long and if what I'm doing is mentally healthy.  It could come back and hit me harder, but I'm trying.

I know exactly what Robin said about thinking of 'never' seeing them here again.  I try hard not to go there.  It is the worst feeling, so I make myself think that I will be seeing him again.  Maybe not here, but when my time comes.  As long as I can believe that, I get through it.

Last night I was grieving for my granddaughter.  I can't believe how close the two griefs are even though I know she's here.  We just miss her terribly and maybe that is keeping me right now from focusing so much on our son being gone.  I don't know.  ???  I hate this confusion.

As Rosie said, "Through us, our children are never forgotten because everyday we think of them.  We either have a smile from a good memory or a tear due to the heartache... but through us they'll never ever be forgotten."  That is as long as we are here and I guess it won't really matter once we are also gone.  Life is just a circle and it keeps going around and around.  

I am thankful for my faith.  I know it has brought me as far as I've come.  Given me moments of calm and peace, and I always pray the same for all of you.  Moments of peace.   ~♥~

Comment by Karen R. on July 5, 2012 at 10:42am

Hey Robin, you are not alone in feeling guilty when you get involved with other things or events. I also feel like that makes my son feel like I am forgetting about him or use to him not being here. That is so far from the truth, I will NEVER get use to such a thing. I even feel guilty when I laugh at something funny.....which isn't too often. I feel like my family walks on egg shells dealing with me in regards to my grieving.

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