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Comment by Karen R. on July 9, 2012 at 8:14pm

Hello to all, I have had dreams/visions of my son before but no where near as many as I would like. Actually, I just want my son back......no dreams. The 1st dream I ever had, someone else interpreted it as my son sending me a message. I dreamed that I was part of a team that was responsible for studying and caring for one particular snake. The snake was mostly yellow. When I described the snake, I was told that it was a python.  In the dream, the snake was contained in box in a lab setting. Myself and 2 others were holding down the lid to keep the snake from escaping because it began to go crazy and was trying to break out. It had super strength, we could barely hold on. Finally I decided to lay my body across the top of the lid to add more pressure but snake snake became more angered and knocked me off and it escaped. It ran out into the jungle and we began to chase it through thick bush and mountains, I decided to end the chase and told the others just let it be. I was so sad but i said we can't capture it. 

It was interpreted as the snake being my son, they said that yellow color was good but black would have been bad. They said that my son was trying to tell me that it wasn't good that I had been trying to hold on to him, for he had been on life support and declared brain dead, much to my denial. They said it was my son's way of letting me know that I did the "right" thing. I had this dream about a month after he passed away. I still have tremendous guilt over whether or not I made the right decision in ending his life support. I feel like I helped kill my son. Does anyone else have any other interpretations on this dream, either negative or positive?

Comment by Ammy on July 9, 2012 at 2:52pm

Going to go out on a limb here, but would really like to hear your opinions.

Would you feel better if your loved one was only sleeping?  

What do we know when we are asleep?

When we wake we have no idea how much time has passed.  We have just been at rest.

What if we just sleep when we die until it's time for all to wake up? 

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I also believe what Dick said about being with God at the end,  but there are conditions.  And the end is not here yet.  So where are we until the end?

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As for dreams...  They say everyone dreams, but some do not remember.  I have always been a non dreamer or non remember-er for the most part.  I remember an occasional dream and sometimes fragments of a dream.  I have had 3 dreams of my son.  Two were so short.  One was more detailed.  I have to admit that I was happy to have them even though the two short ones were not pleasant, but at least I saw him and was with him.

Well, that's my crazy talk for today.  Let me know what you think.

Sending hugs to all and hoping for a calm week.

Comment by Dick on July 9, 2012 at 1:25pm

First Council of Nicaea ruled out reincarnation; which I am struggling with. It just seems the perfect method of educating our consciousness. Unfortunately, it seems we do not remember our previous life...maybe snippets; Deja Vu, odd dreams, innate knowledge. Danny, where ever you are I still love you, I hope you know this.

Comment by Dick on July 9, 2012 at 1:19pm

I am sure that there is consciousness after we leave this life. Otherwise, what would be motivating us now? Our brain is just a mass of cells and there is something more, a consciousness. This is what leaves our physical body.

Now being a Christian, I am taught of a Heaven and a Hell as a afterlife. The more I read theology and history, these seem to be constructs of man. I cannot see our creator, of which we are all one consciousness since he made us, wanting to torture us/himself. He wants us to come to him and honour him as we should each other. Therefore, I feel we will all be with him at the end.

Comment by lynne thompson on July 9, 2012 at 10:18am

I have never dreamed of my son either, I wish so badly he would tell me he is ok

Comment by Adrianne Edgerly on July 9, 2012 at 12:34am
Me too. I want my son to tell me he's ok. That there is an afterlife. More than a dream.
Comment by Dick on July 8, 2012 at 9:41pm

I have had some odd dreams about having a daughter. I don't have a daughter!

Unfortunately, I have not seen my son in a dream. I can lay on his bench in the garden and daydream about him whilst watching the clouds; but I can not dream about him at night. I want to so bad. 

Comment by Dick on July 8, 2012 at 9:31pm

I thought it maybe my son trying to contact me in a dream but I am fearful?

Comment by Ammy on July 8, 2012 at 6:49pm

Dick, just doing a quick search of interpretations and came up with:

Knock: Dreaming of someone knocking is a metaphor of chances and opportunities that are knocking at your door. On the other hand it could mean that you need someone to offer help to you. A knocker is also a bad prophecy which symbolizes death and a fearful future.

If you are hearing knocking then your unconscious wants to warn you or inform you of some part of you or your life. You might be knocking someone, offending them, and the dream is telling you to stop.

To dream that the door is closed or locked signifies opportunities that are denied and not available to you or that you have missed out on. Something or someone is blocking your progress. It also symbolizes the ending of a phase or project. In particular, if you are outside the locked door, then it suggests that you have anti-social tendencies. If you are inside the locked door, then it represents harsh lessons that need to be learned.

To dream that you are locking the door suggests that you are closing yourself off from others. You are hesitant in letting others in and revealing your feelings. It is indicative of some fear and low self-worth. If someone slams the door in your face, then it indicates that you are feeling shut out or some activity or that you are being ignored.

Don't know if any of this relates to you, but hope it helps.

{{{Hugs}}} to all.

Comment by Dick on July 8, 2012 at 5:55pm

I had a dream of someone knocking on my front door. I could hear the voice to let them in; but in the dream I did not open the door. I keep thinking about this. Anybody good with dreams? What does this mean? I usually don't dream or remember dreams.

 

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