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Comment by Dick on August 13, 2012 at 9:18am

Today, one year ago was the last time I saw him alive. I too play this over and over in my head. I remember asking him if he was still on for go with the church for community service. His answer was "yep". I headed out to help a friend move; I wish I had never gone. I feel guilty.

Please say a prayer for Danny and my family.

Comment by Karen R. on August 12, 2012 at 11:43pm

I don't know if anyone else feels this way but I feel like I will never be able to say GOODBYE to my son, I equate that as being final and I can not accept that my son is gone, I just don't want to believe it. I still hope that I will wake up from this nightmare. It's like that dreaded "d" word.....died, oh how hard it is for me to say it! Passed, passed away, crossed over, sounds and feels so much more gentle and softer to me. The "d" word feels so final, like that's it, no more, it's so hard for me to think of my son that way, he is my son and will ALWAYS be my son, never to be forgotten or a mere memory. My pain and sorrow is so profound, I don't know how I am surviving this. I want my son, I want my son, I want my son!!!!!

Comment by Karen R. on August 12, 2012 at 11:31pm

Oh wow, I think of the last time I saw my son everyday, all day. It plays like a movie in my head.

Comment by Adrianne Edgerly on August 12, 2012 at 10:36pm

I don't want anything that feels like another service either Dick.

Comment by Ammy on August 12, 2012 at 10:05pm

Dick, I understand your wanting to be private, and please don't take this the wrong way, but may I suggest that you ask his friends to take pictures or video for you of their get together.  You don't have to look at it right away or ever, but if you should ever want to, then you will have it.  For our family, we each wrote a small note to Charles and tied them to balloons and released them.  Something private you and your family may want to do.  I'm glad we did it.  Whatever you do is good as long as you are comfortable with it.  I know the extra stress you are feeling about this.  You are in my prayers.  {{{Hugs}}}  

Comment by Ammy on August 12, 2012 at 9:56pm

Adrianne, I'm so sorry.  It's so hard remembering.  I often think of the last time I saw my son.  I just wish I had not gone to sleep and then maybe........  No, it wouldn't have mattered.  I am sorry though for your pain.  Sorry we are all in pain.  ♥

Comment by Adrianne Edgerly on August 12, 2012 at 9:45pm

This day last year was the last day I saw my son. Heartache.

Comment by Dick on August 12, 2012 at 2:44pm

We are going to the church garden first and the minister will meet us there to say little vigil. Then meet my mother at 2 PM to go to the gravesite to sit for a while that is all.

I think his friends are planning something but I want to be excluded from it; seemed to much like a funeral all over again. I wished them well.

Comment by Karen R. on August 12, 2012 at 12:20pm

Hey Karen, thanks for your support, I know exactly what you mean.

Comment by Kar on August 12, 2012 at 9:33am

Hello Everyone-     Sorry I have not been on in a couple months-   Sometimes I just dont have the strength...   Wishing you all love, strength & understanding -  hugsss  Karen

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