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Comment by anne on June 8, 2013 at 6:51pm

Today I wish Peace, Love, and Understanding to all friends. Every time you cross a milestone and you survive it you have won! There will be many twists and turns to come along with these milestones, but you will gain strength with each one. Today i'm feeling good, strong, and well rounded, so I thought i'd pass some of it around. 

Comment by Shelley on June 8, 2013 at 1:01pm

Marilyn. .. a few days after my sons funeral me and his girlfriend stopped at my sons favorite Mexican restaurant. We were getting a carry out so we would think of him even more. I thought it would have been comforting. when we were together he would always order for me because I could never remember what kind of taco shells I like. I stammered and I apologized to the girl as I felt I was taking up too much time and I said "I'm sorry my son usually does this for me cuz I can never remember what I get" and she said would you like to call him? So I said no he won't answer. And I totally lost it. She thought I was a kook I'm sure. I feel like that every since he died. I just want him back.

Comment by Jane P on June 7, 2013 at 11:00pm

Thank you all for your warmth. I am home. It was rough and I could not hold it in. It was not a pretty picture! But I did it and it felt good to cry. My daughter was worth every tear. It felt like it was just her and I there. It was a wonderful tribute to her. My heart feels warm again. I have not felt that in a long while. You are all so kind. Thank you.

Comment by anne on June 7, 2013 at 6:10pm

Jane, good luck to you today. There will probably be more times when you will have to be strong, but just remember she is with you and so are we. Our children are always with us. That's one thing that can't be taken away, for love never dies. Peace and love to you and all friends.

Comment by Adrianne Edgerly on June 7, 2013 at 6:06pm

I'm in trouble also Ammy. Today I can't stop crying. Missing him is hard enough but the days I remember the details takes me out. I just didn't save him. I should have.

Comment by Ammy on June 7, 2013 at 5:39pm

Just writing a quick note to say that I have just had to read 6 pages of comments.  I have never been that far behind before, but the 'DRAGON' has reared its ugly head again and I am in the fire.

My heart and sympathy goes out to our new members and also to those that have been here for awhile.  I think of you all every day, but right now I am not doing well.  My daughter thinks I should see a professional and then asked if it's because his birthday is coming up.  How the heck am I suppose to know why.  This life is never stable anymore.  

Jane, I hope your day went okay.  I can only imagine how hard a public event would be.

Sending my love and hugs to all.

Comment by Connie K on June 7, 2013 at 11:12am

Jane - Sometimes others don't know how to be or what to say or if they should show their own grief for fear of upsetting you more. And even though we are in so much pain, we always worry about making others feel uncomfortable (ironic isn't it) and it just makes doing things so much harder. But I think that showing your grief is a gift to them because they can then share their own feelings and comfort and help you. We are all with you in thought  but most importantly your daughter's spirit will get you through. Good luck. It is wonderful that she is being honored.

Comment by Teresa D. on June 7, 2013 at 10:49am

Jane we will all be with you today. 

Comment by Michelle H on June 7, 2013 at 10:22am

Jane, sending love and prayers your way. How wonderful that your daughter is being honored! She WILL be with you, closer than ever.

Comment by Michelle H on June 7, 2013 at 8:14am

Jane, you don't have to be strong. Just allow yourself to be real

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