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Missing my Son  or  Daughter

For all of us that are suffering the loss a son or daughter.

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Comment by Lynn Williams on February 14, 2016 at 4:14pm

Thinking of you and Michael today. Love and prayers to you both.

Comment by Connie K on February 14, 2016 at 10:42am

Hppy Birthday to Mike in Heaven <3 Hugs Teresa

Comment by Teresa D. on February 14, 2016 at 7:58am

Comment by Teresa D. on February 14, 2016 at 7:54am

I love you Michael! I miss you so bad! 

I hope your dancing with the angels today!

MOMMY LOVES YOU MIKE! 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MIKE!

You'll always be my Smurf!

As much as I tried to prepare myself dam this HURTS!!!!!!!!

Comment by Teresa D. on February 13, 2016 at 4:49pm

Comment by Connie K on February 11, 2016 at 1:24pm

Oh Ammy I am so sorry to hear what you've been through. I am an 11 year breast cancer survivor. There was no way that cancer was going to take me out. I had my son to raise. He was 10 at the time. 3 years later he was diagnosed with Crohn's disease and I became his caretaker. My cancer made me stronger  to deal with all the hospitals etc he had to later. I know it was hard on my son while I was going through treatment for a year. But I think it helped him too - to understand that we can get through the worst. And he did - only to ripped from this earth in a damn car accident. All of our life experiences have value. You know now that you can handle ANYTHING since you've lost a child. I am so happy to hear you are cancer free now and will keep you in my prayers. I know your son is with you and yes we are all one day closer to seeing them again. Thanks for your kind words.

Comment by Ammy on February 11, 2016 at 1:15pm


I have not been here in what seems like a long time.  Last Oct.  I was diagnosed with breast cancer and with all the doctor appointments, testing and surgeries (2) I have not been online much.  I finally had to have a mastectomy on Jan 21.  I should be cancer free now but I didn't seem to be stressed out when they told me I had cancer.  I just took it calmly and my family couldn't understand my attitude as they were upset.  I think that after a child loss nothing can shock us that much.  At least I guess that is how it is for me.  Each day I am grateful to be here with my family but I also count it as one day closer to being with my son again.

Connie, I am sorry that you are not feeling well.  I know it' can be harder on us when we are physically ill.  Seems to bring things so much closer to the surface.  I hope you will soon be feeling better. 

For all the new Moms that are here I can only tell you to take it as it comes.  Feel your pain, cry, scream.  Whatever you need to do, just do it.  It doesn't seem healing at the time, but it is and gradually it will ease.  It's a slow process but you are all strong women or you wouldn't be here.  Your children have only physically moved.  They are always with you; in every memory, every picture, every breath.

Love and hugs to all.

Comment by Connie K on February 11, 2016 at 12:01pm
sO true Michelle. My Daniel,was an only child also and I know that feeling of nothing more to come....all those things I thought I would pass on to him and to his kids are just sad reminders that no one else would care at all about any of it.

tOni good to hear from you. Daniel Would have been 21 this March 31. I also wonder what he would have done. just cannot believe this is my life either. hUgs to everyone
Comment by michelle schlund on February 10, 2016 at 7:39pm

Feb. 15,2016- will be 9 months without my son, my Logan, forever 20. I lost him 5/15/15 in a kayaking accident. I still can barely function, cannot work, therapy every week, medication for depression. Lost , so lost. I raised Logan as a single mom- he was my world. there will be no college graduation, no marriage, no grandkids, no one to even leave anything to when I die. Society,people have absolutely no clue...until it happens to them.

Comment by toni m dicarlo on February 10, 2016 at 7:02pm

Gabriel (Lolly)

WHAT IF WHAT IF WHAT IF . I did not expect to be here after I lost you, I thought , no I knew I would just die in my sleep but I did not. May 26, is 5 years and I do get up each morning and wonder what you would do on your 21st birthday coming up? How can this be my life. How was I so blessed to have a wonderful caring son.  

 

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