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Comment by Connie K on July 18, 2013 at 3:30pm

Vasanthi - I lost my only child as well and I just want you to believe that of course we are still mothers. We carried and birthed our children. Raised them with love. That will never die.Your child made you the person you are today - their Mom and all that teaches us in life. They will always be there guiding US now. Being a mom is my greatest joy and losing Daniel is my greatest sorrow. But I am and will always be his mom and so are you! I feel you pain - you are never alone. <3 <3

Comment by Connie K on July 18, 2013 at 3:24pm

Today is such a hard day. I am going along and BAM I can't believe he is gone. His girlfriend came by yesterday and showed me a video she had made about 4 days before he died. It was a funny video called "My boyfriend does my make-up".  It shows him so happy with her and his funny lovable self. It was both wonderful to see and of course a heartbreaking reminder of the beautiful person who is no longer here to laugh with. He was such a beautiful boy and how I miss holding those hands.  I love you Daniel forever and will miss you more every day. I pray for God's help in getting through one more day without you my sweet angel boy.

Comment by Vasanthi S on July 18, 2013 at 10:34am

lots of love and healing being sent ur way to all here .want to say so much and rt now I just read everything,  andfeel blessed to have such a wonderful group here.

Comment by Adrianne Edgerly on July 18, 2013 at 2:31am

Ammy
I pray I can get to where you are. I'm so sad. So lonely without my son. I read every post. I am struggling worse than ever and though I want to reply, I usually can't. He was my everything.

Comment by Karen R. on July 17, 2013 at 11:06pm

Thanks Marilyn, maybe he will.

Comment by Karen R. on July 17, 2013 at 10:14pm

Just saying hello to all. I visited my son's final resting place today :(

I go pretty often but today it was like I needed to confirm that I was really going to see my son's name engraved on the monument stone, I felt like a crazy person.....more than usual. I read his name over and over again, I felt so empty.  I kept thinking how much my son didn't belong there, I kept thinking about how he was laid there when he was only 21 yrs old, I kept thinking about all of his friends that are enjoying the summer. I kept thinking about how much he loved to swim and how good he was at it. I stood there struggling to grasp the idea of why I need to accept this, I kept thinking why is this a part of life....like everyone tries to convince me. I just want him back, I want this all to be a mistake. I want him to have another chance. If only HE could tell me that he is truly fine and that everything is ok, then I would be ok.

Comment by Michelle H on July 17, 2013 at 2:02pm

Vasanthi, you are and always will be a mother! Just as I have two children, not one. It saddens me that you or anyone could feel stripped of that role because of a child's death. It's not like a divorce where you stop being someone's wife. You ARE Shreyas' mom and I am Christopher's mom. Sending loving thoughts.

Comment by Vasanthi S on July 17, 2013 at 12:19pm

Ammy, thanks n hugss

Comment by Ammy on July 17, 2013 at 12:17pm

Vasanthi,

I truly hurt for you.  I can't imagine the loss of an only child.  I only know the loss of my only son.

You will always be Shreyas ( Micky's) mother.  Nothing will ever change that.

    ♥

Comment by Vasanthi S on July 17, 2013 at 11:48am

Ammy, u said we are mothers-- if the only child is taken away , I'm still a mother-- without a child?

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