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Comment by Dick on August 7, 2013 at 4:27pm

I just weep all month long in August, for Danny. Now I have my remaining sons birthday, wedding anniversary, and my grandchild's birth day all this month. Well, I guess it is better than Christmas :(.

Please say a prayer for us on August 14, it will not be a good day.

I will always miss you Danny. Love Dad.

 

 

Comment by Ammy on August 7, 2013 at 11:58am

Hi everyone.  I am having a calmer day so far.  Always grateful for that blessing.

I can't let go of Cha's ashes either.  For some reason I feel a closeness to him with them here.  I am afraid to let them go even tho I know he would think that foolish of me.

After 3 years I accept the tears when they come.  I don't try and hold them back unless there are people from outside the family around. They are just a sign of our love and that love we have for our children is worth every tear. 

Hang on Connie.  {{{{{Connie}}}}}  You are in my thoughts and prayers as are each one on here.  

Comment by Grace on August 7, 2013 at 9:59am

Niles ashes are next to me in my dresser.... I don't know if I will ever Spread them....4 years almost 3 months.

Comment by Teresa D. on August 7, 2013 at 6:35am

I'm afraid to be alone.  I seem to have my worst moments alone. 

Comment by Vasanthi S on August 7, 2013 at 5:54am

Thanks to all the posts-- keeps me going-- really appreciate the time everyone takes to share-- this group , I consider among my closest friends though brought together by such a tragedy, it is still made up of stalwart people--- love to all...we are 'work in progress' in God's workshop.

Comment by Grace on August 7, 2013 at 5:33am

good morning...   Just Breathe.... some days that is all one can do

Comment by Adrianne Edgerly on August 7, 2013 at 1:41am

I hate this month. Particularly the 17th.

Comment by Connie K on August 6, 2013 at 10:26pm

I understand wanting to be alone. I need to be alone for a while every day. Then I just don't have to worry about chit chatting or explaining how bad I feel or acting like I'm ok when I'm dying inside. I am so so sad today I just feel like I can't cope.

Comment by Ammy on August 6, 2013 at 1:54pm

I would also like some time alone some days.  Just feel like I would not have to put on my fake face.  :(

I have been reading a lot and will just share.  Don't know if it helps anyone or not but sometimes it helps me.  Of course other times it just makes me sadder.

~ Losing someone you love through death is painful and personal. You soon learn that grief can’t be confined to a method, time frame, or event; it’s a process.  Grief is an unpredictable, solitary and unforgettable experience, one that can’t be healed in a moment, a month, or even a lifetime.  Grief ebbs and flows, like the swelling waves of an ocean.  One moment we feel engulfed by a wave of sorrow, later we may be lifted by waves of hope and acceptance.  The tides of Grief certainly take us by surprise. ~

Be blessed everyone.  Sending hugs.

Comment by Michelle H on August 6, 2013 at 1:19pm

No matter what I'm feeling any given day (if I'm lucky enough to be feeling anything), I really count on all the posts I read here. I care for each of you and I'm sorry that our association has to be based on losing a precious child (or children).

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