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Missing my Son  or  Daughter

For all of us that are suffering the loss a son or daughter.

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Comment by Teresa D. on September 8, 2013 at 10:41am

It's like this can't be real, but I know it is. 

I appreciate the support.  You and I know there are no words.  Just knowing I have a place to turn during all this madness is enough. And there's no words I can say to her, all I can do is be there for her even during my own tough time.

My cousin is recovering. One bullet grazed her head and the other went in and out without hitting her brain. 

Emotionally I just don't know.  I know what it feels like to lose a child but to lose your husband too and he is the one responsible for it all. I just can't imagine what she will go through. 

This was DOMESTIC VILOENCE at it's worse.

They have been together since they were kids.  They have 3 children, an older daughter who lives on her own, a 14 year old that was there and locked herself in her bedroom and then their 10 year old son who is now with Michael.     

She stayed through it all because she said, she loved him.

She was quietly planning on leaving him after all these years and he found out. 

Oh my God I just thought of something....

The funerals.....how the hell am I going to do that?

I can't do that! Not now!  Not this month!  

 

 

 

Comment by Jane P on September 7, 2013 at 5:46pm

I'm so sorry Teresa.

We are here for you.

 

Comment by Teresa D. on September 7, 2013 at 5:11pm

The pictures of the flowers are really nice.

Thank you to everyone for your support during this very difficult time.

I'm not sure how to process all this.

I was so hung up in my own grief this month dreading Michael's one year mark and this happens.  Now all I can do is think about what I know she is feeling and how horrible it is.  I think your right it is intensifying my own feelings of grief. I HATE SEPTEMBER!  I NEVER WANT IT TO COME AGAIN!

Comment by Vasanthi S on September 7, 2013 at 10:55am

Teresa,

Horrifying and I really have no words- just keeping u in my thoughts and sending lots of prayers for peace.... all here -- love u all.

Comment by Kar on September 7, 2013 at 10:13am

Teresa -   Gosh I just don't understand ... nothing makes sense anymore...    So so sorry this has happened.   HUGsss

Comment by Teresa D. on September 7, 2013 at 7:40am

Thank you for all your prayers.  Yesterday was a horrible day that has left many of us in disbelief.

I am emotionally exhausted.  My cousin survived. When I entered her hospital room she just looked at me and cried.  As she described her emotional pain and the emptiness she feels all I could say was, "I know".  I am sooo sad today. I need to believe Michael was there to get Little Jake and show him his way to heaven.  I just can't stop crying today.

 

 

Comment by Connie K on September 6, 2013 at 2:41pm
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Vasanthi I know moving on in life no matter how wonderful, is difficult. But I am so glad you have these special times with your fiancé. As much as it hurts you are right to follow your heart and live a life that your son would be proud of. He wants you to be happy and I believe that in in searching for the good and happiness in life we open our hearts to more communication with their spirit. God Bless you and Craig. Peace to everyone today. We are traveling and it is hard to relax and enjoy new places but as someone once said "traveling to a place you have never been is like dancing lessons from God"
Comment by Connie K on September 6, 2013 at 2:32pm
Teresa What a horrific tragedy! I am so sorry. Words cannot express how sad it leaves my heart. I will be praying for your cousin. You are in the unfortunate position of being able to offer your insight and support to her family as she recovers, God willing. Hugs and live to you and your family.
Comment by Michelle H on September 6, 2013 at 1:11pm

Teresa, I am so deeply sorry to hear the incredibly tragic news. We live in a world that is sometimes totally incomprehensible. Prayers for all involved. It must exacerbate your own feelings of grief. I wish it weren't so...

Comment by Teresa D. on September 6, 2013 at 8:20am

Today is a horrible day.  I woke to find out that in the night my cousin was shot in the head twice by her husband, he then killed their 10 year old son and himself.  My cousin is in surgery right now fighting for her life.  Please God stay with her.

 

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